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Sebastyne

The Lover Of Men, Kings, and Gods, The Patron Saint Of The Masculine. Also, other stuff.

#GunControlNow – how attitudes are changed before the laws

People don't respond to logic, they respond to social elevation or social demotion

#GunControlNow – Laws are rarely changed in a situation where their enforcement requires a lot of force.  The law writers wait until the society has already changed to kind of seal the deal. “This is what we believe now, as a nation.” Talking sense is an ineffective method of creating change. It is much more […]

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

Do you feel depressed? Not quite in depression but not far off?

Maybe there's nothing actually wrong with YOU or your brain..?

I must first say I am not qualified to treat depression or suggest remedies for it. This is important for you to know. I am simply a life coach and I wish to present this crazy idea that you become depressed as a result of being unhappy. This would contradict the current moronic idea that […]

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

How the church and moralists have a hold on hedonists

And why we can say goodbye to that in 2018

There are two kinds of good people. There are people who want a debaucherous, hedonistic life, but who sacrifice that wish for the good of other people. They’re the hedonist. Then there are those who want to live modestly and “help” other people to give up their hedonistic lifestyle for them. These are the modest […]

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

Men have every right to feel unfairly attacked and judged

The line between "sexual misconduct" and what's OK seems to be "would I date him or not"

Lately, I’ve grown rather ashamed to be a woman. It’s not a new feeling, but the way women are now acting is ludicrous. Women tend to give out this impression that if they are not treated like teenaged girls by over-protective patriarchy, they are not happy. They are acting as though their delicate little world, […]

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

My New Found Appreciation For Finnish Rock, and Suomirokki, Finnrock

Let me explain this to yer foreigners...

The Finnish musical landscape, when right in the middle of it, can be depressing, particularly in the 80’s. By the end of the 90’s, things got SIGNIFICANTLY better, but before that happened, it was quite a challenge. When I moved to Australia and gained some perspective and, more to the point, got to a SAFE […]

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

The Awakening – When Someone Turned On Actual Music

The torture was over

I grew up in a musical hell. With no cousins, older siblings, or friends who could have brought me anything worthwhile to listen to, I went to 13 thinking I don’t really like music. Then, one day, I heard Extreme.

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

A situation that could be a #meToo if I hadn’t proof it wasn’t.

An example of how subjective interpretation can put a bad label on a good guy

I was 22 at the time. I had never modeled much before. My friend started working for a modeling agency, and she asked me to join them as a model. I figured that under the circumstances I might, to show support to her, even though I had always said no to all modeling ideas before. […]

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

#CountMeOut of #MeToo – Objections to the pervert hunt

Stop it before you kill all the fun out of life! (Understand the other female perspective.)

If you think it’s scary to speak out when you know 99.9% of people will support you, imagine how I feel like defending sexual harassers. You’re afraid you won’t be believed, I’m afraid people will take me for a troll or that they’ll think I’m mentally unstable. There has always been ways to silence sexually willing women who defend devilish men… Nothing has changed.

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

Relationship guide for those who are not really interested in sex

You don't have to submit to sex just to have a permanent relationship - conditions apply.

I have noticed that two groups are constantly at odds with each other when it comes to relationships. The sexual and the asexual. (Asexual meaning a person with little or no sexual interest towards other people.) Relationships, to an asexual, can be annoying, as people associate all romantic relationship types (mono or poly) with sex. […]

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

How I stole Madonna’s admirer with one comment

The annoying thing is I know his approach works... Lessons to be learned.

I was checking out Madonna’s Instagram feed, and this guy was hitting on her. This is how I stole Madonna’s admirer from her. He was the type who insults someone who he thinks has a big ego. He does this hoping she’d get irritated enough to engage in a good fight and then wind up […]

My life coaching and self-development is based on the idea of personal choice, personal freedom, and seeking authenticity. My blog is constructed under the same principles of openness and being real.

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