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A rock fan. A thinker. A psychic empath and a channel, a Tarot reader. A polyandrist; The lover of men, kings, and gods. An eternal romance analyzer.  A romantic pervert. Generation X Rebel. A psycho-spiritual life coach.

About Profile Fields: Commitment or a Passionate Romance?

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This is important in all areas of life. People think differently, and this is one of the BIGGEST pitfalls you can get into or avoid in ALL of your relationships. You can sink your business if you hire the wrong people with the wrong kind of a contract, or you can make your ship fly… Or have the most successful romantic relationship you’ve ever had if you pay attention to just one detail about people.

  1. You need to feel there must be a true commitment before you feel safe enough to fall in love.
  2. You need to feel you are deeply in love with someone before you feel comfortable making a true commitment to them.

In business, the first group of people would even hide their true talents from you until they get a full-time, permanent employment from you, they want commitment, and for them to belong to the company and for the company to swear to never give up on them, while the second group wants you to “fall in love with them” and ask you to join their team, but they don’t expect that employment be life long, necessarily. The second group is also much more likely to be seeking self-employment in the long run, and that’s why they, also, as employers, understand the need for temporary positions under their roof.

One loves the feeling that there is no way out, while the other loves the freedom to come and go as they please (and the knowledge that even if people are free to come and go, they still return to you out of a free choice).

The first group thrives in a truly committed marriage, the other one dies slowly.

The first group tends to pressure people into commitment, while the other is waiting for the lightning to strike (and not in vain, either, should they not give up just a moment before it’s about to).

There is also a strong need in the first group of people to get themselves a mentor, even in sexual relationships. They always feel like there is someone who knows things like a magician, and they want that information, and unfortunately, that information often exists with the second group of people. They are not shy to give it away if asked, but the first group of people feels they have to MARRY YOU to acquire the information you’d part with without hesitation if asked. The first group of people feign disinterest in the stuff they are really curious about, too, until you marry them or hire them, because then, they feel they’ve got you trapped and you’ve got no way out of that relationship, so they can do with you whatever they want, and they own your information, your personality, and your life – they’d figure you own them too, but the second group of people doesn’t want to own anyone, so the relationship is always unbalanced.

There is a point when the second group of people also feels like they want to give themselves to someone else, but it always comes as Brianna’s pledge, through honor, through respect, through absolute love towards someone, never as a trap or a result of a bargain.


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