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A rock fan. A thinker. A psychic empath and a channel, a Tarot reader. A single polyandrist looking; The lover of men, kings, and gods. An eternal romance analyzer.  A romantic pervert. Generation X Rebel. A psycho-spiritual life coach.

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Basics of the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology

How both the connections and the theory of it came to be

The Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology is an attempt to identify and describe all relationship types known to humanity (so far). Sounds impossible? Well, yeah, it is a bit. I don’t know if I have gotten it all, I’ve tried! I will also add to the typology when I find one that doesn’t fit the existing […]

The Basic Relationship Problem

We're trying to connect through opposite ideals

One might assume that when we go into a love relationship that we all seek for the same thing from it. We all tend to believe that “the ideal” is the same for everyone. Because this is not at all true, relationships fail, as one person is forcefully trying to teach the other that ‘relationships […]

Thinker Types

Please pick the answer that resonates with you better and write down the letter after each statement. Then, count if you have more C’s or L’s, and whether you have more E’s or I’s. (Theoretically, you should only have one or the other from a pairing, but people are quirky.) The result will be at the […]

Which Thinker Type?

The Rough Cut Personality Quiz

Mark your answers on a piece of paper, and count which type is more prominent later.   At the very core, people can be divided into two groups, that affects all of their life decisions, most importantly, their love life. Thinking about ALL of your relationships in general, rather than the best and most important […]

Which Poly-Mono Relationship Type?

In very simple terms

In your heart of hearts, which relationship type sounds the most exciting, fun, and sexy to you? Which type sounds like “of course everyone in my position would do that IF they felt it was OK!” One man is chased by a bunch of wonderful women he adores, while the women have a playful competition […]

Commitment or Romance

There are people who believe love cannot even start without a commitment. Without the reassurance that no matter what YOU will not leave me, this company won’t fire me, this hospital will never turn me away… They want to know that whomever they are with, they can COUNT on, 100% no matter what. They will […]

Definition of adulthood

Two different ways to see it: You can do whatever you like when you are a child as long as you don’t hurt yourself or others, but once you grow up, you have to do your duty, be responsible and obey an authority. While you’re a child and dependent on someone else’s care, you do […]

Definition of respect

Do not put me face-to-face with the white lies I’ve told about myself and what is told about me. (Do not threaten my false ego.) Do not say mean things about me even when they are true. Expect me to be able to take care of myself, to handle the truth, and to speak for […]

Definition of unconditional love

I love you regardless of the fact I don’t like you, respect you, or want you around, simply because you are a family member and I am obligated to love you. I love you for everything that you are, and no matter what happens, I will always love you, even if you weren’t together with […]

Definition of “to love”

I will teach you how to be the kind of a person that I like. My rules and regulations are like the embrace that I hold you with. I will give you boundaries so you know what will turn me against you if you disobey me or disrespect my rules. I will tell you when […]


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