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A rock fan. A thinker. A psychic empath and a channel, a Tarot reader. A polyandrist; The lover of men, kings, and gods. An eternal romance analyzer.  A romantic pervert. Generation X Rebel. A psycho-spiritual life coach.


Let’s talk about the shittest current “strong female character” “Madison Clark”

She embodies everything that is wrong with women and feminism in one show!

This has been a running trend in film lately, the bad female characters that are supposed to inspire respect of men, women, and children alike. The character Madison Clark is the worst of the lot. The trouble is, most women couldn’t even define the meaning of respect, let alone command it. As a woman, I […]

Why I don’t let people in – a few words from a commitment phobic

There is no commitment phobic without a rejection junkie. Let’s start from there. I can feel it. Them – multiple women in spirit – trying to push their way “into my heart”. I feel how they want to make me submit to them, to make me their own. They feel they have the right to […]

I always wondered how the f* 80’s happened…

Why would anyone want to live like that, you know..?

Here’s the interaction: The intellectuals start to feel constricted into a certain way of doing things. They force their way through into a revolution of fashion, morality, habits, values and so forth, and for a couple of years, they are having a ball. The conventionalists complain, they fight, they argue, but eventually, they figure the […]

How Many Times Do I Have To Flush Before You Go Away?

Breaking up with the unflushable...

In male-female relationships, I’ve always wondered why people even need to say that they’ve been TRYING to break up with someone for so and so long, because, hell, if you don’t want someone, you tell them and that’s it, right? I then realized that I have an experience that is very similar to the love […]

When you become the player’s prize girl

He/she gets you, and loses interest

I read my archives of, my original website. Shooting back over 10 years ago, into a time when I was a rather popular blogger back in Finland. Without realizing, I was making myself into a trophy. I was building an image of a girl who was too picky for one’s own good. What this […]




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