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A rock fan. A thinker. A psychic empath and a channel, a Tarot reader. A polyandrist; The lover of men, kings, and gods. An eternal romance analyzer.  A romantic pervert. Generation X Rebel. A psycho-spiritual life coach.


The pro’s and con’s about playing hard to get (as a woman)

You'll excite some men to chase you... but to what end?

It is the oldest trick in the book… Denying sex from a guy until he goes nuts over you. Making yourself a prize in a race with no other competitors than your suitor – or perhaps a few. The best player girls make their virginity pledge a huge public deal, just to arouse the interest […]

Kinksters Around The Globe

It’s been a while since I’ve used a dating site in Finland. Everyone knows I swear by them, and I quite love dating sites, because of that expectation factor, the unknown of the possibility of maybe getting laid later with this person. A (male) friend of mine was chatting to a girl on a dating […]

“Don’t be jealous” is the dumbest thing polyamorists have invented

Jealousy is the whole point of it all!

Polyrelationships are mostly based on the ideal of non-jealousy. At worst, this is a form of emotional abuse, at best, a beautiful understanding of two like-minded people, but jealousy should have a place in polyrelationships. It should be enjoyed, not suppressed, it should be the salt of the whole thing!




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