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In the mind of the pervos who pay you for “a sexy chat” on Instagram and the like

This was interesting, too

Yesterday I blogged about that guy who essentially proposed to me on the second message he sent me, very bizarre, offering me some material for my studies without realizing. Today, I’ve got another color of crazy for you. This time, in the form of a man who approached me on Instagram promising me 5000 dollars for “a sexy chat and pics”.

Sounds bizarre, but…

Okay, I had my doubts, but since I do “sexy chat and pics” for fun on AFF and other places anyway, I thought what the heck, let’s see what this guy wants and where this leads. He first shows me a picture of a bag of money, which obviously is unlikely to actually be real, but I’m like yeah whatever, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have the money, but he has figured showing “visuals” will make him seem more legit. After all, this is the electronic era, even if he had the money, it would be sent through PayPal, so showing a picture of money that doesn’t need to be there (as it’s on PayPal) isn’t exactly dishonest.

Can you trust a pervert?

There’s the stigma on perverts that you can’t trust them, but what I’ve learned is that you can, you just have to know how they think and what they want, but I must say this brand of a pervert was a new one for me, as I don’t take too well to a tone that commands on the wrong tone, and his was certainly wrong from the get go.

In some ways, you can count on a pervert to spend money, more than anyone else!

His pace is super fast…

So he asks me to do this and do that and do whatever in a fast pace, at the pace that suggests that no way he’s actually in it for this, he is simply seeing how far you’d go for the money. Normally, men like to take their time, enjoy each photo, they are relaxing, after all. I know he’s planning on masturbating to the series of pictures later on, but he just needs to get there first.

What is he paying for?

So there are different kinds of pervs. Some want  you to be honest, and they hate it when you do stuff for them that you wouldn’t do or fake an orgasm or whatever, and I kinda like that bunch, as well as those who love you for giving them what they want for free, after which they want to pay you or send you gifts anyway because they think you’re lovely. I dig that bunch, although they’re rarer than what one would wish they were.

He’s not fun to play with

I obviously don’t like the feel playing with this guy at all. I don’t like the forcefulness, the hurried pace, the idiocy of his requests. “Put black underwear in mouth,” he commands in broken English and I’m like… Yeah, whatever, if this gets you off. I had a clean pair so who the f cares, right?

He reveals his inexperience with women in some careless comment, but that only explains why he’d be willing to pay such ridiculous amounts of money for something that to me seemed pretty lame/weird, but then again, free chat guys don’t ask you to put black panties in mouth and expect to get away with it. I’d still do it, most likely, given the right context and tonality, a bit of humor and hey no worries, but… Yeah, they tend not to do that.

So I’m thinking who is playing who here because I admit a few years back I would have just said no to suggestions like this because I know they won’t pay up, I mean why would they? But I want to see where this is going, and who knows, maybe he will pay up? I could certainly use the 5000 he promised me.

The no-go zone is reached

He then asks me to get my flat mate into the game. I tell him no, he’s not part of the deal. So he starts pestering me for that, raising his price to 10 000 if I go kiss him and to “suck him off”. I tell him no because we‘re good the way we are.

Other guys might have wanted to pay you to tell them stuff you haven’t told anyone else before. They know when you tell them you don’t want to say or to ask something else. They want what you don’t want to do or say. Unfortunately, my limits are fairly flexible compared to most Instagram girls, so I happily do stuff most women wouldn’t have. So there are pics to prove that. 😀 I should have been smart and say no to the double dildo penetration but… 😀 Hindsight and all. I figured that’s at least something to pay for, might make him happy, but no. He wants the stuff that is absolutely beyond the limits, right, and I don’t want to go beyond my limits until I know his cash is real.

He didn’t even blink when I suggested I’d get some guy to fuck me on camera for him any kind of a guy he wants, old, young, pretty ugly, what evs, just not my roomie, and not today, and as long as the price is right. He didn’t even answer. The turn on is about stuff I don’t want to do.

He would pay me to trust him and to let him do with me as he pleases

On the other side of this coin is that he wants the trust first. He wants to feel the power. I, on the other hand, am quite fond of my power and not inclined to sell it. So I start to see what he was actually intending to pay me for, which was to follow his command and go over my boundaries and trust him the money is real and his word is good. So yeah, I do think his money was real, and that he had every intention to pay up, IF he had what he wanted, as in me do something I wouldn’t normally do. The whole point of playing with money, right?

Threats arise

So to persuade me, he tells me he’s going to send all the pics so far to my friends on Instagram but takes it back as a joke before I have time to reply. I laugh and tell him to get to it as if anyone of them would be shocked. There’s a certain power you hold when you haven’t got secrets. Secrets and shame are terrible for your ability to be autonomous, so I like to avoid them at all cost by not keeping secrets.


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