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A rock fan. A thinker. A psychic empath and a channel, a Tarot reader. A polyandrist; The lover of men, kings, and gods. An eternal romance analyzer.  A romantic pervert. Generation X Rebel. A psycho-spiritual life coach.

Despite of what it may seem, I am an incurable romantic

Don't let the ideal of non-monogamy fool you

I came to appreciate the ideals of polyamory through the spiritual study of the concept of Twin Flames, which is quite certainly the most monogamy-driven idea in the world. For years I believed there is only one man in this world for me, he was The One, a God in man’s body – and nothing has changed. I still think he is exactly as amazing as the day I fell in love with him, even more so, the more I get to know him, beyond all description, perfection embodied. And yes, I know he isn’t “perfect”, but at the same time, he is exactly that, perfect. We are all flawed in such an exquisite ways, each in the most brilliant way.

What I came to know about soulmates, the ultimate of them, that I had to rename with the label True Spirit Mirror, is that they think exactly alike or in a compatible way. What they take pleasure from, their authentic partner(s) will also take pleasure from giving or doing to them, or living in that way. Whatever kind of a pervert (or a conformist) you are, the one, is the ones are exactly the same way, all you have to do is to accept yourself for everything that you truly are – a miserable louse and a poor excuse of a parent if that happens to be what you are. (We all make great parents to the right children, too, but first things first. Trust you me, a crack whore has a perfect place in this universe, parenting the exact right type a child… but that’s an advanced course in spirituality.)

One thing I realized much later when I had already messed up my chances with this guy, was that one thing that was always between us was his belief I was a prude who would be shocked to find out what he was… While I was trying to send a message to him by wearing a dog choker, a piece of equipment I would never use on my dog! The message wasn’t received. Anyway, enough about that, but the point being, whatever we are ashamed of or convinced of, keeps us locked in a world where soulmates do not see their soulmates for who and what they are.

There is nothing wrong in its right place, and also there is nothing right in its wrong place. This, I promise.

This website is created to serve a philosophy of truth, authenticity, and true love, true authentic love of PEOPLE, not images, or robots, or fronts of what is appropriate, but real people… The good, the bad, the ugly.

And no. You don’t have to love everybody. That’s one aspect of the true beauty of loving the people you truly do love for what you actually love them for.

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