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A rock fan. A thinker. A psychic empath and a channel, a Tarot reader. A polyandrist; The lover of men, kings, and gods. An eternal romance analyzer.  A romantic pervert. Generation X Rebel. A psycho-spiritual life coach.

Sexually willing females and the myth of their non-existence

The frustration of not being able to run the streets naked in order to get a proper root

I must tell you something, dear men. Sexually willing females are not a myth invented by the porn industry. We DO exist.

Here’s the dilemma: There are women who are deathly afraid of men and their “power”. These are the same women who insist men are threatened by “feminine power” and “strong women”. I believe they are projecting their own fear of male power and strong men. This fear has been turned into a culture, that, in every way, is designed to strip men of their power, and turn that power over to the ladies. All in the name of “protecting women”.

The fear of men has real roots

The fear stems from a real source, the assumption that people are by and large monogamous and heterosexual. Both of those statements are profoundly untrue. This causes the situation that women who like women are societally “forced” into sexual relationships with men, who they do not feel sexually attracted to. As he is unable to get satisfied by a woman who isn’t into sex with him, he gets frustrated. He is then likely to take that frustration on a woman who had no biological link to being attracted to this man. These women fear nothing more than having to submit to the sexual desires of a man, justifiably so. But we are not all like them.

Women are not all meant to bear children, either. In natural societies women are needed for other purposes, not just birthing babies, and the same is true for men fathering children. Although it is good for the species that a lot of people take part in the genetic contribution, there are men and women who were never intended to be a part of the breeding process, and they are woefully disinterested in sex to begin with.

The straight people cannot get enough of each other

Then, there are us heterosexual men and sexually willing straight women, who cannot get enough of each other. Currently everyone thinks we are running the show “over sexualizing everything” which is such utter bull, if we had our way, we’d root during business hours. However, we are NOT all alike. We HAVE TO start respecting the fact that we are not all alike. We ALL need to be able to dictate what happens to our bodies, whether it is a earth-shattering orgasm with 12 brutal men or the Dr. Phil variation of “women need a loving and caring environment…” *Vomit* (Love and care is great, after you’ve been fucked to the inch of your life and you’re barely breathing. THEN, loving and caring by those same men is awesome. One of these days, one of these days, right?)

Women who fear men do not speak for all of us… but they try

Okay… The women who fear men and their sexuality have made A LOT OF NOISE about how women don’t like man-sex, how they don’t dress for men but “themselves” or “other women” (being often closet lesbians), and that short skirts are not supposed to be taken as a sexual signal. However, for us straight girls… We don’t even know why we would dress up if it wasn’t for men.

We DO dress for men, and our short skirts ARE a sexual signal and an invitation of sexual attention. Our legs are bare to ignite the idea of them being wrapped around a guy later the same day. This is our form of self-expression, otherwise, we’d have to start using blunt, unsexy come-ons on men who do not appreciate it as dominant men need SOME subtlety in our actions. A complicated mating ritual that lesbian and mildly bisexual women wouldn’t have a clue about so I won’t get into that now.

When a straight girl goes to the gym, she doesn’t go there to be fit for her children or for the health reasons, she’s there to make her behind tight to a man’s touch, and to make that guy go mental over her waist to hip -ratio. We NEED sex just as much as men do. It is the reason we lose our will to live if we don’t get it, and we do not want any pretence about it either. We do not want men to “respect us” too much to fuck us properly, we want them to respect us enough to know we can take a good root… And a sexy beating.

I think women are smaller in frame because we love fear

My theory is, as a spiritual researcher, that women love being smaller than men because we love pain and fear more than men do. We LOVE to feel vulnerable and small in the hands of men. It would make sense that this is why we are smaller than men. I am not, by the way, which I’ve always hated, I feel like I grew bigger than I ought to have because I was protected by my mother. I wanted nothing more than to drive men wild, but with my physique, I don’t have all my cards in my pockets… Close, but not all.

I have one famous incarnation (well, a few but, this is the relevant one)… She was said to be small in frame and have breasts that needed no fillings inside her dress, and that is how I feel I should be, however… I’m derailing as per usual. This is to do with my frustration of being protected from my own lovers by women who do not understand what I love and want and why. (A voice in my head just said the same thing, another woman of my bend, truly beautiful, but taller and stronger than what she ought to be, and with a body just “off” enough to be a problem for her.)

Men fear having misinterpreted our flirtation

The men I know, ALL OF THEM, react to me funny. They kind of know what I am, instinctively, but the fear of misinterpretation is always there. Men feel they are telling themselves stories of a sexually willing female or that they are just “going man-mental” over a pretty girl or whatever. They cannot trust their instincts because they have been repeatedly told I don’t exist. I am not real. A sexually willing female is a myth.

Man-fearing women fear porn

In contrast, women with a fear of men feel that porn stars are giving men a false idea of what women want. They might be right, but only because porn is now femaled by women who love taking advantage of man’s weakness for women. Predominantly the stars on the screen are man-abusers who simply don’t care how they do it. Not all of them. Men know their girl when they see one, Pamela Anderson being one of those stars who LOVE men. Kim Kardashian is probably another woman who is surrounded by bisexual women but who is as straight as an arrow herself, although not a porn star… Strictly speaking, although she would probably thrive in that role.


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