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This site is my attempt to answer as many relationship-questions as I possibly can answer in one place. They are little more complex and advanced than what you’d find on a regular relationship site, simply because well..It’s time to level up. I combine psychology with spirituality (psycho-spiritual) because to me, those two things are so […]

The Missguide’s Intention has Become Clear…

And if I wasn't so angry, I might feel touched or flattered.

I have never really had a group of friends that I’ve felt that I’ve actually belonged in. I’ve had friends, people who I hang out with, but who I don’t really consider REAL friends. If had “best friends”, meaning the best people I’ve got on a scale out of the people who I know, without […]

Confession of infidelity: a sign of trust or a breakup attempt?

Again one major difference between a Fluid Thinker and a Solid Thinker

When a Solid Thinker talks about their private life, they do not mean it is a specific sign of trust, more to the point, if they do not, that is a severe sign of mistrust. This often drives Solid Thinkers and Fluid Thinkers together, because the Fluid Thinker believes that the Solid Thinker confesses all […]

Being loved for who you are

How different thinker types feel about it

This is a Tailored Post. [membership level=”1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15″] What creates unity A Solid Thinker wants to be a part of a group and being loved for being in it just as much as a Fluid Thinker, but the reason they want to be included for is very different. A Fluid Thinker wants to belong into whatever […]

Erotica writing tips from a reader

Erotica… One would think it’s the easiest genre to write because everyone is into sex, so you should get that smut published in no time, right… But nothing could be further from the truth, I’d imagine. I mean… You get one word wrong and you ruin the whole thing. You lose the rhythm when you […]

Ego and fame

[membership level=”1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15″] As per usual, the way Solid Thinkers view the concept of “an ego” is very different to the way Fluid Thinkers view it, and as it happens the Solid Thinker variation of it is a concept that is very difficult for a Fluid Thinker to understand even on a theoretical level, so the […]

Free Spirit Theories

As I expanded my studies into soulmates, I found that more and more I had to start connecting with other spiritual concepts and the physical reality that we exist in, to fully explain why some people feel an instant connection to one another, while others are clearly strangers. One question led to another, and I […]

Your Ultimate Soulmate Relationship

If you haven’t chosen your exact group yet, I urge you to that you do that before reading (and reloading) this page, because I will be describing the ideal relationship type of each personality type and it’s going to be amazing with the group selections done correctly! Then again, if you are still unsure, what’s […]

How Fluid Thinkers (typically women) process unpleasant information

"Surely, he can't mean THAT?"

Because Fluid Thinkers are hard-wired into believing everyone around them speaks in some kind of a code language, when someone is trying to present an unpopular, unpleasant, or unfamiliar idea, or to give them personal feedback that they do not understand why someone would say that, Fluid Thinkers tend to decide that what was said […]

How we conform, and to what we conform?

Although we feel there are “non-conformists” in this world, the phrase is not exactly right. We all conform to some standard or expectation, and our thinker type determines what we conform to and for what reason. What is the motivation each one of us has for conforming. [membership level=”1″] As you have chosen the “hide […]


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