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Fluid Thinker sexuality; “show me how, hold my hand, be there for me”

For those who are insecure about sexuality, a friend in need is a friend indeed

People tend to pretend to know how to do everything. They feel like they have to “act confident”. This makes it difficult for the Fluid Thinkers to find sex partners who would show them the ropes so to speak. Someone who would take their hand through it all, and help them through it. I was […]

Love is a sacrifice vs. Love is a bliss

The contradiction of values and how to solve it.

Sometimes even True Spirit Mirrors hold a different value in this area. One of them feels he or she needs to sacrifice something for his or her partner, and the other feels they want to give that person everything they want, and also receive everything they want from that person – they want love that […]

Confession of infidelity: a sign of trust or a breakup attempt?

Again one major difference between a Fluid Thinker and a Solid Thinker

When a Solid Thinker talks about their private life, they do not mean it is a specific sign of trust, more to the point, if they do not, that is a severe sign of mistrust. This often drives Solid Thinkers and Fluid Thinkers together, because the Fluid Thinker believes that the Solid Thinker confesses all […]

Being loved for who you are

How different thinker types feel about it

This is a Tailored Post. [membership level=”1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15″] What creates unity A Solid Thinker wants to be a part of a group and being loved for being in it just as much as a Fluid Thinker, but the reason they want to be included for is very different. A Fluid Thinker wants to belong into whatever […]

Breaking up with a Fluid Thinker: “I am unhappy. :((“

Not "I am not happy" that is not seriouss enough.

A Fluid Thinker doesn’t expect to be happy in life. They expect to be safe and sound, but they are not counting on being happy, and they can live with not being happy. A Solid Thinker, on the other hand, wants happiness, and they will spend a lifetime longing for happiness, or in the pursuit […]

Can two people be friends after they’ve dated?

The irony is that the Solid Thinkers are the ones who have no trouble letting go of a relationship or, more accurately, redefining the relationship to more accurately match its natural flow. The Fluid Thinkers, who are completely co-dependent, do not have a half-way mark to a relationship, and they only have two modes; deeper, […]

Ego and fame

[membership level=”1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15″] As per usual, the way Solid Thinkers view the concept of “an ego” is very different to the way Fluid Thinkers view it, and as it happens the Solid Thinker variation of it is a concept that is very difficult for a Fluid Thinker to understand even on a theoretical level, so the […]

Do you want to hurt your Twin Flame for not wanting you?

One of the most insisting reasons why letting go is so difficult is the wish to make the other feel like shit, too. They had the gall to reject you, and now, you want to show them a) What they missed out on (because you’re fucking awesome and they’d better know it) b) make them […]

Flirt Chicken played the Fluid Thinking way and the Solid Thinking way

  Fluid Thinkers and Solid Thinkers flirt slightly differently. Even when they play Flirt Chicken – I just made that up, tell me if there’s an actual term for this – a game with the purpose of challenging the other to a game of flirt, they go about it slightly differently. Solid Thinkers will feel […]

Free Spirit Theories

As I expanded my studies into soulmates, I found that more and more I had to start connecting with other spiritual concepts and the physical reality that we exist in, to fully explain why some people feel an instant connection to one another, while others are clearly strangers. One question led to another, and I […]


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