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How and why polyandrous androphile men cheat

One more rock n’ roll celebrity love story wiser, I got such a clear idea of why the polyandrous androphile men (which is, essentially, every rock star known to humankind, potential being, that I have missed the odd few polygynous rock stars out there, because, essentially, they don’t exist on my personal radar,) cheat. (If […]

What happens after we die?

Take it from someone who has died a million deaths...

Some people remember their past lives, some people don’t, but it is quite certain we‘ve all lived countless of lives. Killing life is simply not possible. Everything living (and quite possibly everything non-living, too) has (or has had) a soul, lacking a better word for it. The reason why “a soul” is a bad term […]

About Profile Fields: Commitment or a Passionate Romance?

This is the most important profile field to fill up

This is important in all areas of life. People think differently, and this is one of the BIGGEST pitfalls you can get into or avoid in ALL of your relationships. You can sink your business if you hire the wrong people with the wrong kind of a contract, or you can make your ship fly… […]

“You’re not that good looking” and other facts of life

Why it's so hard to face the mirror sometimes

If you read the last post, you are on the right note for this one. If not, this might not make much sense. One of the many reasons why I didn’t want to say anything about what is happening with me is that I fear the “online bullies”, the fact that they have the power […]

One sided soulmate bond aka Mirage Spirit (unrequited love)

We always worry about whether our soulmate feels the same way toward us, whether we should hold onto hope at all, so here will be the answer to that burning question: What if this is completely one-sided and I am a lunatic? Tell you what, you are not a lunatic, but there is a good […]

Everyone with their arms elbow deep in your pockets

How to deal with relationships when everyone has an angle?

Celebrities are not really human. That is about the extent of thought most people put into their attitude towards someone famous. Because they feel this way about celebrities, the problems of celebrities become a matter of a dollar value. People around celebrities can easily view them as somewhat of a bundle of problems that aren’t […]

Moving masses; convince the Solid Thinkers, distract the Fluid

Once you get Solid Thinkers convinced, the Fluid Thinkers must follow

Here is the premise: First; The Fluid Thinkers want everyone to agree on everything. EVERYONE must agree on EVERYTHING. That is the basic idea the Fluid Thinkers live by. We must, for instance, agree that not everyone thinks correctly, but we all must try to make them think correctly. Second; The Solid Thinkers want to […]

Why Are People So Suspicious?

What are they afraid of...

In this article, I’ll be using terminology that will repeat on this blog over and over if you stick around. In the long term, it will make my posts much easier to read, but in the short term, it can sound a bit weird. The Bear With Me! The Fluid Thinkers can get pretty suspicious […]

Getting a divorce due to irreconcilable differences?

You must read this. (Your lawyer should, too.)

To a lot of people, “a divorce” is just a strong negotiation tactic. Psychologically, we think in two different ways. These thinking patterns are gender-typical but not gender specific, and can cause a lot of confusion and communication difficulties in close relationships like marriages. Unfortunately, these two thinker patterns may truly lead to irreconcilable differences, […]

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