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Love is a sacrifice vs. Love is a bliss

The contradiction of values and how to solve it.

Sometimes even True Spirit Mirrors hold a different value in this area. One of them feels he or she needs to sacrifice something for his or her partner, and the other feels they want to give that person everything they want, and also receive everything they want from that person – they want love that […]

Confession of infidelity: a sign of trust or a breakup attempt?

Again one major difference between a Fluid Thinker and a Solid Thinker

When a Solid Thinker talks about their private life, they do not mean it is a specific sign of trust, more to the point, if they do not, that is a severe sign of mistrust. This often drives Solid Thinkers and Fluid Thinkers together, because the Fluid Thinker believes that the Solid Thinker confesses all […]

Do you want to hurt your Twin Flame for not wanting you?

One of the most insisting reasons why letting go is so difficult is the wish to make the other feel like shit, too. They had the gall to reject you, and now, you want to show them a) What they missed out on (because you’re fucking awesome and they’d better know it) b) make them […]

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Flirt Chicken played the Fluid Thinking way and the Solid Thinking way

  Fluid Thinkers and Solid Thinkers flirt slightly differently. Even when they play Flirt Chicken – I just made that up, tell me if there’s an actual term for this – a game with the purpose of challenging the other to a game of flirt, they go about it slightly differently. Solid Thinkers will feel […]

Learn to let go and learn to hold on – and know when to do either.

People have a tendency of being very quick on letting go of their True Spirit Mirrors and Bosom Mirrors, while holding on tight with fierce ownership of their Partial Spirit Mirrors. This is because we never really truly appreciate the Partial Spirit Mirror, which means we feel that it is within our rights to hold […]

How to break an unwanted soulmate bond?

Something I get asked a lot...

In the vast majority of cases, people who come to me wishing to break a Twin Flame bond are actually talking about one of the less perfect bonds, that are, ironically, often much stronger than the True Spirit Mirror bond that breaks at the first sign of trouble. The most difficult bond to break is […]

How to learn to deal with rejection

Rejection is never pleasant, but there are ways to deal with it that makes it easier to take. This is not to ignore what happened, deny one’s own part of what happened, but to understand what rejection is and isn’t about. Rejection doesn’t mean you are a bad, unlovable, undesirable person. Rejection simply means you […]

Many things have fallen into place in a short time span with my True Spirit Mirrors

As you know, I am constantly connected to a whole heap of people, most importantly, my True Spirit Mirrors. In the last few days or a couple of weeks, a few major realizations has followed the other, releasing one lock after the other, something that… shouldn’t have even been there, really… Considering. The fact that […]

Fluid Personalities do not need to learn how to love Solid Personalities

They need to learn how to not expect everyone to stick together

Fluid Personalities find it very distressing to think that not everyone could be loved by everyone in the best possible way. Therefore, writings like the True Spirit Mirror description or the description on how Solid Personalities love each other on True Spirit Mirror level cause them distress because they cannot find a way to love […]


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