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What does it mean when someone defines themselves through a relationship?

In other words: Does the label define or describe you?

I had a fight with a friend once years ago. I remember her retorting to me: “I’ve never met ANYONE who defines themselves through a relationship as much as you do!” That comment struck me as a bizarre one, I didn’t think it was true, but it has been nagging at me ever since. What […]

Fluid Thinker sexuality; “show me how, hold my hand, be there for me”

For those who are insecure about sexuality, a friend in need is a friend indeed

People tend to pretend to know how to do everything. They feel like they have to “act confident”. This makes it difficult for the Fluid Thinkers to find sex partners who would show them the ropes so to speak. Someone who would take their hand through it all, and help them through it. I was […]

Being loved for who you are

How different thinker types feel about it

This is a Tailored Post. [membership level=”1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15″] What creates unity A Solid Thinker wants to be a part of a group and being loved for being in it just as much as a Fluid Thinker, but the reason they want to be included for is very different. A Fluid Thinker wants to belong into whatever […]

Breaking up with a Fluid Thinker: “I am unhappy. :((“

Not "I am not happy" that is not seriouss enough.

A Fluid Thinker doesn’t expect to be happy in life. They expect to be safe and sound, but they are not counting on being happy, and they can live with not being happy. A Solid Thinker, on the other hand, wants happiness, and they will spend a lifetime longing for happiness, or in the pursuit […]

Can two people be friends after they’ve dated?

The irony is that the Solid Thinkers are the ones who have no trouble letting go of a relationship or, more accurately, redefining the relationship to more accurately match its natural flow. The Fluid Thinkers, who are completely co-dependent, do not have a half-way mark to a relationship, and they only have two modes; deeper, […]

Confession of infidelity: a sign of trust or a breakup attempt?

Again one major difference between a Fluid Thinker and a Solid Thinker

When a Solid Thinker talks about their private life, they do not mean it is a specific sign of trust, more to the point, if they do not, that is a severe sign of mistrust. This often drives Solid Thinkers and Fluid Thinkers together, because the Fluid Thinker believes that the Solid Thinker confesses all […]

Ego and fame

[membership level=”1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15″] As per usual, the way Solid Thinkers view the concept of “an ego” is very different to the way Fluid Thinkers view it, and as it happens the Solid Thinker variation of it is a concept that is very difficult for a Fluid Thinker to understand even on a theoretical level, so the […]

Flirt Chicken played the Fluid Thinking way and the Solid Thinking way

  Fluid Thinkers and Solid Thinkers flirt slightly differently. Even when they play Flirt Chicken – I just made that up, tell me if there’s an actual term for this – a game with the purpose of challenging the other to a game of flirt, they go about it slightly differently. Solid Thinkers will feel […]

Your Ultimate Soulmate Relationship

If you haven’t chosen your exact group yet, I urge you to that you do that before reading (and reloading) this page, because I will be describing the ideal relationship type of each personality type and it’s going to be amazing with the group selections done correctly! Then again, if you are still unsure, what’s […]

How we conform, and to what we conform?

Although we feel there are “non-conformists” in this world, the phrase is not exactly right. We all conform to some standard or expectation, and our thinker type determines what we conform to and for what reason. What is the motivation each one of us has for conforming. [membership level=”1″] As you have chosen the “hide […]


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