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A rock fan. A thinker. A psychic empath and a channel, a Tarot reader. A polyandrist; The lover of men, kings, and gods. An eternal romance analyzer.  A romantic pervert. Generation X Rebel. A psycho-spiritual life coach.


Wow, I even scared myself back then!

Reading through the early archives of

I wanted to post some stuff I’d written years ago on my blog online… I feel like there are a few people who still feel like they want me to “go away already” because of the way some of the things I wrote and the way I worded them came across. I also want to […]

About Profile Fields: Commitment or a Passionate Romance?

This is the most important profile field to fill up

This is important in all areas of life. People think differently, and this is one of the BIGGEST pitfalls you can get into or avoid in ALL of your relationships. You can sink your business if you hire the wrong people with the wrong kind of a contract, or you can make your ship fly… […]

The true pain of being a lady – and the responsibility of it

You'll find that I ramble.

There are certain things a true lady won’t do. Although I am no longer a pure lady, I am more a lady than I am not, still, in comparison to a lot of women out there. Sure, I am, as I’ve always been, a rebellious lady, there are certain things I don’t like, but then […]

How to lose a chick in 10 days – if the chick is me

I was in a serious relationship with a male stripper once. It was one of those “hey you, I like you” things at a club how it got started. He was striking from the word go, a great guy. Then, one day, he comes home, he’s cut his thick long hair that I loved and […]

“It’s their loss” and “they’re just jealous” -people

Don't listen to that, it's their own failure to accept such a thing as inequality of personal traits

At the risk of sounding he said she said, I’m going to have to say this. I am sick of hearing people deflect criticism by claiming “they’re just jealous” or “they say it because they are hurting inside” or “they don’t really mean it” and whatever it takes to lull someone back into the belief […]




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