Category: The Free Spirit Theory

Soul Enemy – the opposite of a Soul Mate.

The way reincarnation works is that we have certain people that we reincarnate with for one reason or another; some of them are friends, and some are enemies. This definition of a Soul Enemy is of the latter type and also refers to what other philosophies call “a karmic soulmate,” what psychology refers to as a narcissistic relationship or maybe a narcissistic dynamic. This narcissistic bond can be either one-sided or go both ways. If it’s one-sided, it needs to be broken – by force if necessary – if it goes both ways it needs to be healed; it may...

Strong Recommendations from the Free Spirit Theory

The Free Spirit Theory is not a religion, but can certainly replace a religion. It is not attempting to govern your behavior or forcefully align you with God or any equivalent. There is a moral discussion, but I do not believe moralizing works. It is more a study of human behavior in relation to spirituality, morals, and psychology, rather than any attempt to control it through one-size-fits-all control. The only control I suggest is using psychological awareness to protect yourself from other people using this knowledge. The more important goal is to become a better parent, friend, and lover to...

Old Soul* or Young Soul*?

Can’t decide whether you’re a Old Soul* or a Young Soul*? Sometimes, when we get used to the opposite type of thinkers, we adopt ideas that seem authentic but actually come from someone else. Therefore, I’ll ask some key questions to decide which camp you actually belong in, even if some of your behaviors would contradict this. These are deciders: 1. How much time do you spend wondering if your family members or people (not “the one,” but people in general) love you for who you are? Young Soul*: None. As long as everything works well and they’re not leaving...

Conscious life-planning.

We are all constantly manifesting things in our lives. The problem is that if you don’t think about what you are doing, you are more than likely manifesting negative things or at least not very positive things. We rarely feel like we can invite our truest wishes into our lives; we feel powerless to change the hand we were dealt at birth. We take what comes in a somewhat passive state, and the last time we did any actual planning was when we were children, daydreaming – if we did that even then. We were daydreaming about what our lives...

How did the Free Spirit Theory come to be?

While writing the Free Spirit Theory and its subsections was a very creative process, I haven’t taken creative licenses to the truth. The only rule in the Free Spirit Theory is that I have to believe it to be true. The Universe follows certain rules. Rules of nature, rules of physics, etc. Still, we know, I know from personal experience that there is a spirit in this mass of things, a way to consciously connect to everyone else even when separated and isolated from them. There are undeniably “supernatural” elements to our existence. Still, two assumptions that cancel each other...

The Free Spirit Theory

The Free Spirit Theory is a psycho-spiritual theory set written by yours truly. At its core is the idea of the individual soul’s authentic being and its need to self-actualize. Basically, what this means in simple terms is that each spirit must learn to enjoy being who they are, to seek pleasure. Each free spirit is limited only by other free spirits, who have a free will that they sometimes use to oppress others. People get in the way of each other’s pleasures, but shouldn’t. The Free Spirit Theory points out that conflict is entertaining at times; fighting and drama...

True Emotion Mirror Signs

There are weak signs and strong True Emotion Mirror signs, and the only way to find out is the test of time. I share these signs to decide whether or not it makes sense to keep hoping this relationship will actually start one day, or you’re focussed on, or whether you are fooling yourself with it. If this person is not your True Emotion Mirror, and particularly if they don’t respond to you positively, there is absolutely no point trying to start or resurrect anything with them. These signs are also akin to street signs, the kind pointing the direction...