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True Emotion Mirror Signs

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There are weak signs and strong True Emotion Mirror signs, and the only way to find out is the test of time. I share these signs to decide whether or not it makes sense to keep hoping this relationship will actually start one day, or you’re focussed on, or whether you are fooling yourself with it. If this person is not your True Emotion Mirror, and particularly if they don’t respond to you positively, there is absolutely no point trying to start or resurrect anything with them. These signs are also akin to street signs, the kind pointing the direction...

August 4, 2023

The Law of the Truest Wish and Meta Blueprinting

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In the core of Free Spirit Theories, the psycho-spiritual theory created by yours truly, are the concepts of the Law of the Truest Wish and Meta-Blueprinting. The first is a slight adaptation from the law of attraction, and the latter is an expansion of it to future lifetimes. The Law of the Truest Wish dictates that whatever we TRULY want is always protected from lesser wishes. You cannot find YouTube fame if your true wish is not compatible with YouTube fame, no matter how authentic that wish is, if there’s one that is greater, bigger, or more. The Law of...

August 4, 2023

Non-monogamy

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Typically, we have been raised to believe that monogamy is the height of romance and true love. I beg to disagree on that front. I believe most people are naturally non-monogamous, not all of us, possibly, but the majority of us. By non-monogamy, I don’t mean we are non-committing or promiscuous, but that we want to, rather than bond with one person alone, we wish to bond with several people simultaneously, multiple men or multiple women, to marry the same person with our best friend(s), with every group member’s consent and to everyone’s pleasure and contentment. Let’s think of it...

August 2, 2023

The Dog Type Thinker and The Cat Type Thinker

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This is the most important part of all Free Spirit Theories but not necessarily the most interesting one. The Cat Type Thinker and The Dog Type Thinkers are a part of everything I write. Without understanding the differentiation, it is quite impossible to understand the rest correctly. These two thinking types divide people in two groups. In between, there are the Cat Type Thinker that are Dog Type Thinker -conditioned and Dog Type Thinker that are Cat Type Thinker conditioned. Yet, this conditioning tends to change our behavior toward the opposite gender more than anything else. Whenever you are trying...

August 2, 2023

Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology – Soulmate Types

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There are more soulmate types to explore, but unless you have a special interest in soulmate dynamics, the ones mentioned on this page should be enough definitions for most people. A quick glossary of terms Cat Type Thinker and Dog Type Thinker – two BASIC personality types. They are completely incompatible with each other in every way possible. Cat Type Thinker – believes the biggest crime in relationships is to tie someone reluctant into one. The Dog Type Thinker – believes the biggest crime in relationships is to leave someone, to break a commitment even to someone who doesn’t want...

August 2, 2023

Life Basics

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In this category, I discuss the basics of life, “default values” if you will. Good approaches before getting into the complications. This is a good place to start if you don’t truly know where you stand on things. Read Posts

August 1, 2023

Love Life Basics

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Elsewhere, I speak a lot about True Emotion Mirrors. This category has nothing to do with that fancy stuff; this is simply getting you from feeling like the biggest dating dummy up to speed, right? Just where other adults are at. This is not a master class, this is the dating basics. I am not going to teach you to be a “seduction master” as that is for… Shall I say, ehrm, assholes, this is not a “how to pick up hot chicks” guide because they are very sex-focussed and meant to deceive a woman for long enough for them...

August 1, 2023