Savage Spirit Mirrors (Committed Life Partner)
The Savage Spirit Mirrors are a bit of a conundrum. Once they learn to trust that they are fully loved, they’ll turn into savages with each other. They’ll play rough… Very rough. That said, when they’re done fighting, they can turn into boredom itself; Committed Life Partners.
It is a Dog Type Thinker thinking ideal relationship, and their rough play won’t last forever, only until “the point of surrender.” After that, they’ll be rather cozy and calm, but their courting maybe brutal and merciless. Even the most cheeky and playful of Cat Type Thinker will never get to this level of “dare you” as Savage Spirit Mirrors do. The relationship, in a mature state, turns so tame, that it is unrecognizable as the same thing; Committed Life Partners.
If getting your True Emotion Mirror right is important, identifying your Savage Spirit Mirror is about 100 more so. You get this wrong, and you’ll be in jail for stalking or physical assault of some description, or your incorrectly identified Savage Spirit Mirror pair will be sitting a jail sentence for murder… or an attempted murder or aggravated assault, you being the victim. DO NOT GET THIS WRONG!!!
Agreement over one thing only.
Savage Spirit Mirrors can actually be very different types of people. They have some base-level values that they hundred percent agree on, but they can disagree on almost everything else. They can even enjoy arguing about their differences to a high degree; to them, these intense arguments only fortify their bond: “Look at us going head-to-head on these issues because we know we can trust each other to stick around regardless.” (To Cat Type Thinker, this is the literal relationship hell they want to avoid at all costs but not always manage to.)
In the core of Savage Spirit Mirrors lies an unquestioned commitment to the relationship. They may not agree on much, but they agree on one thing: “we’re in this until the day we die, come hell or high water.” This type of commitment is romantic ONLY to Dog Type Thinker, and Cat Type Thinker will do wisely to avoid getting talked into these types of relationships – we are built differently. Momentarily a Cat Type Thinker can be lured into this type of passion, interpreting the Dog Type Thinker’s promise of “until death do us part” quite mildly compared to the Dog Type Thinker romantic idea of literally taking things within inch from your death… when the Cat Type Thinker doesn’t surrender… And they won’t. This is not their bag of goodies.
The more drama the better.
To Savage Spirit Mirrors, the dissimilarities between them are exciting. They love finding a way to fit into each other’s lives, even if it takes adjusting and compromise. (Cat Type Thinker hate compromises, to ask for them and to give into them alike.) To Dog Type Thinker in a Savage Spirit Mirror -relationship, all of the drama and non-compatibility are fantastic fun to solve. They want no easy ways out, they want nothing to be simple and “flowy,” they prefer their relationships to be hard work and as complicated as possible. They show their devotion by sticking together despite all the hardships and they measure love by the hardships they’ve endured together. (None of this means tittley squat to a Cat Type Thinker who can’t wait to get the fuck away from anything like this.)
Dog Type Thinker can, thus, act very “testy” with their partner at first, and to show a personality the other has to tame, in order to feel interesting to other single people. This is a polar opposite to Cat Type Thinker who try to be as much of a catch as possible – something Dog Type Thinker may interpret as “poor self-esteem,” and be attracted to that perceived insecurity of “having to be perfect.”
Unconditional Love.
The only thing Dog Type Thinker want from their partner is reliability. The fact they’re there, and show long-term interest. Once they find someone willing to BE THERE, they fall in love with that person. They may also be testy at first, they try to BE difficult just to test their potential partner and their commitment to what will always eventually be a drama-filled relationship. This will usually send Cat Type Thinker running – and it should.
Dog Type Thinker will be constantly testy, rude, and even obnoxious on purpose, just to test their partner’s commitment.
Warning
While I advice any outsiders from getting involved into the Savage Spirit Mirrors’ relationship no matter how brutal it may seem, there is one thing to remember. If one of them seems very reluctant to continue this madness, and seeks safety with you, HELP THEM get away. Identify them as a Cat Type Thinker and you know they cannot POSSIBLY be in it by their own will. Dog Type Thinker tend not to be aware of this, and they think the reluctance is a part of emotional dominance and a game.
That said, a Dog Type Thinker will easily seek for shelter too, but they’ll return back into the fight with a certain gleam in their eye. Tell them that if they go back, you won’t help them anymore, and KEEP THAT WORD. Hopefully, they’ll know to watch their own back in their game of love.