True Emotion Mirror

This connection is the ultimate romantic and sexual love connection to another person. It is your dream partner; you couldn’t possibly imagine anyone better – even though your imagination may be limited if you haven’t met them yet. However, I will throw caution in the wind in this post and simply describe what this connection is, not what it is not. If you have trouble in your relationship, you need to read more to make sure you’re talking about the same thing.

That said:

Mature State True Emotion Mirrors recognize each other immediately when they look each other in the eye.

You may not recognize even your Mature State True Emotion Mirror by the way they look. You may even know of them for years, but if you’ve never actually looked them in the eye before, you might not recognize them. You still would have noticed them, they would look interesting to you. However, as soon as you look them in the eye, the recognition will be instant. For Potential State True Emotion Mirror, a new connection, there will be a strange knowledge that this person is special and “like made for you.”

True Emotion Mirrors can see their relationship the way it has been and, often, as a consequence, how it will be the moment their eyes meet. Often this connection can be recognized in a photograph or video, but that’s not always the case. The reason for this is, that a person who is being photographed or videotaped isn’t looking at their True Emotion Mirror at the time. Their eyes don’t look familiar to their True Emotion Mirror in that situation. Still, they might be drawing from their past life when acting, for instance, and be, actually, connected to their True Emotion Mirror at the time they’re being filmed.

It is possible for a True Emotion Mirror who knows their True Emotion Mirror they haven’t seen for a decade from a photograph when they’re photographed by someone else (or from a selfie). They may look depressed, disconnected, disappointed, and utterly alone, and that is not the look on the face of a person who looks at their True Emotion Mirror in the eye… Nor one who feels hope of finding them.

This connection is created out of love for each other.

Your True Emotion Mirror connection, if you have one, started sometime in history, much the same way as any common crush did. It’s always based on instant mutual attraction – it NEVER EVER starts with a “meh” feeling. It NEVER grows from NOTHING at all. It is never based on familiarity or from merely the fact someone is there and decided to stay. It is never something that you can just decide to teach another person or command them to feel.

The LEAST of the ingredients in a True Emotion Mirror relationship would be INSTANT, MUTUAL ATTRACTION, even if this is a fresh new connection. From there, it builds toward a True Emotion Mirror connection. This means that lust at first sight can turn into a True Emotion Mirror connection, but no matter how much time you put into a mundane connection will never get there. It’s like driving a car with a half-empty tank/charge through a desert hoping to get to a petrol/recharge station before the petrol/battery runs out, when a potential True Emotion Mirror relationship has a freaking solar panel to run it.

You want to protect them from everything.

One feeling you have is a sense of wanting to protect them from everything and to make their world perfect. You want their happiness more than you want that of your own. Your feelings toward a True Emotion Mirror are always more selfless than what they are selfish, and you may walk away from them fearing the selfish feelings because you would never want to hurt them.

I put in a picture of flames, and often, “flames” is what you feel with your True Emotion Mirror, flames of love and passion, not anger. Never anger. If you ever anger or wish to hurt your True Emotion Mirror, it is a very fleeting feeling that goes away in an instant, much sooner than what you have time to even raise your hand to strike them – I mean that literally. You may be angry with them, and you may sustain that anger for days sometimes, but you’ll “put them in the dog house” rather than hurt them. However, if you’ve never been angry with your partner, it’s a very weak True Emotion Mirror sign, but combined with other signs, it’s there.

If you feel like you want to put them through Hell and hurt them, it maybe a Savage Spirit Mirror instead… But that one is full of room for misinterpretation of the nature of that connection.

There is potentially multiple True Emotion Mirrors – but it doesn’t mean what you might think it means.

One person can potentially have multiple True Emotion Mirrors, but that, to me, doesn’t mean a choice between one or the other, but a no real choice between monogamy and polygamy. Polygamy takes 3 different base forms: One woman with several men, one man with several women, and a marriage between several women and several men. While a monogamist might find this idea depressing, a true polygamist will find this idea exciting and reassuring at the same time. You’ll also more than likely already know which type you are or “wish you were” which are one and the same thing… This also automatically concludes that your True Emotion Mirrors are (excited by) the same type, and you should not hide this from your (potential) True Emotion Mirror(s).

It may take a person some time to tweak themselves with the polygamous mindset, given how strongly we’ve romanticised monogamy, and how strong the societal rejection of polygamy is, but once you allow the thought, you should enjoy it – and you also should never be rushed into it. Your True Emotion Mirror should have patience for it, although they may have to choose the one who is already open to the connection over one that isn’t yet.

Fear for one’s sanity… and heart.

True Emotion Mirror relationships are emotionally intense from the start. This does not mean “violent” or “angry.” It means passionate, loving, secure. You feel intense feelings, and NONE OF THEM are angry or hateful. This connection does not need introduced drama to feel the way it does. I wouldn’t call it dramatic anyway, but it’s intense anyway, simply being what it is. The feelings you feel are so strong, that even people near you can feel them and enjoy them.

This intensity can be such that one starts to fear for one’s sanity – either you develop a telepathic connection to each other spontaneously, or you just feel like your whole world revolves around this one person and “loves me, loves me not.” Either way, you may feel… insane, and it’s not always a good feeling. You may, at times, feel absolute terror with your True Emotion Mirror – not because they’re scary, but because you fear losing them so intensely.

The fear of loss is often a sign of a polygamous bind, as we’ve been forced into monogamous societies, where a choice between one True Emotion Mirror and another has had to be made – often in favour of a Partial Value Mirror, who offers “a stable” love… But I don’t recommend that line of thinking for this new dawning era… It’s very outdated and misinformed way of thinking about love.

Highly sexual feelings.

One thing that men often scare about their True Emotion Mirror is the fact their feelings are INTENSELY sexual. Women feel the same intensity, yes, but they are not brainwashed into thinking their sexuality hurts men. Men, however, may feel that this one woman ignites their “toxic masculinity” and all of the sudden, they want to do to this woman all the things they are being hated about; basically rape her, own her, lock her into a room and growl at the door at anyone attempting to come close to her. He should at least see what her reaction would be if he confessed those feelings to her.

And, to return to the “I’d never hurt her” at the same time as “I want to rape her” – those feelings are always together – and “the rape” is just an intense feeling of arousal, and he wants to bring her pleasure in it, not to ‘hurt-hurt’ her. He may fear, however, that if he goes there, and she doesn’t want it, he couldn’t stop himself from finishing if she tells him to. The fear around True Emotion Mirror, especially in men is “what if I’ll hurt her.”

Even in milder cases, men may fear their attraction is purely carnal, and that it wouldn’t, at the end of the day, last the demands of marriage. In that, men are dead wrong… That said, some of them may have to accept they are, in fact, polygamous. One man can have this intense chemistry with several women, or a man can have this bizarre need to own and possess and simultaneously share her with other men… Or even seen her “punished” for her sexual allure in the form of seeing her f***d by other men.

If this sounds familiar… Fear not. Perfectly normal. Not toxic masculinity but true love. (What would closet lesbian feminists know of heterosexual desire anyway?)

Heterosexual women should help matters along by speaking their mind about how they truly feel about men and their sexuality, perhaps in public more than before; we may love talking about it with men, but maybe it should come out of the shadows in the modern world.

The brain kicks in.

While the first meeting with a True Emotion Mirror maybe magical, even last-a-lifetime-magical, in the way that you’ve looked at someone in the eye once, and “just know” this is your “the One” or whatever term you’ll use, the brain will soon kick into gear and ruin everything. We’ve been told over and over that “you can’t expect to have everything in one person” “true love isn’t real” or “love at first sight isn’t real.” Every warning and logically induced fear will start playing on your mind: “A woman/man like that would never love you back.” “You’ve lost your mind.” “You’re fat/ugly/whore/dumb/damaged, they’d never love you the way you are.” All of these thoughts will fight their way in and at least attempt to push your earlier calm knowledge out of your heart and mind.

True Emotion Mirrors should try and see their counterpart OBJECTIVELY: “Is this person, OBJECTIVELY SPEAKING, just about as good looking as I am, perhaps equally smart, equally talented, and equally sexually desirable as I am?” If the answer to this question is “well yes, probably” you can rest assured your brain is just being protective of you and you can calm it down.

Force yourself to be objective.

Now, True Emotion Mirrors have SEEN one-sided crushes like that before. They’ve been the object of them, perhaps had a few. Therefore, we fear this is again the same thing. We fear that “OMG, I’m doing this again… Or I’m doing the same thing as that idiot I knew once.” Therefore, going forward OBJECTIVITY is very good thing to gain. FORCE yourself to think about it objectively and logically and you’ll find your way back to romance and brainless, utter, maddening, fearless love.

That’s what my texts are primarily here for… To make this relationship a reality for the Cat Type Thinker.

What if you know they’re NOT exactly a True Emotion Mirror, but the attraction is there?

Lastly, I want to point out that a relationship is worth exploring even if you can tell it’s not a True Emotion Mirror but you both want to see where it might lead. Especially if you are polyamorous or polygamous, why not see where it’s going?

If your ideal life style matches, it is a very good starting point, especially if you keep an open mind as to where it is supposed to lead. Maybe both of your True Emotion Mirror waits at the end of it, and you’re simply travel companions? Who knows?