True Emotion Mirror Signs

There are weak signs and strong True Emotion Mirror signs, and the only way to find out is the test of time. I share these signs to decide whether or not it makes sense to keep hoping this relationship will actually start one day, or you’re focussed on, or whether you are fooling yourself with it. If this person is not your True Emotion Mirror, and particularly if they don’t respond to you positively, there is absolutely no point trying to start or resurrect anything with them.

These signs are also akin to street signs, the kind pointing the direction to a destination – even though they’re there, it doesn’t mean you HAVE TO follow them. These are not TRAFFIC signs; these are STREET signs. Therefore, even if you see them, it doesn’t mean you HAVE TO follow them – and the same freedom applies to whomever person you’re thinking about regarding yourself. That said, IF this person truly is your True Emotion Mirror, they will want to go your way without a second thought, but will they is another matter. Also, these signs are not PROMISES by any means; they may well be promises your soul has made to yourself on behalf of another person who didn’t authorize them… So only the signs regarding their behavior and true feelings are something you can somewhat count on. There are people who mark other people for themselves without the marking being actually “authorized” by the other person.

A very bad sign is that you think: “Oh, they’re just trying to wiggle out of this contract!” That is NOT the way a True Emotion Mirror feels about their counterpart. NOT THE SLIGHTEST. This is not a contract; it is a promise, a gift, a joy, and a bit of a miracle; no True Emotion Mirror would ever feel the need to “wiggle out of.”

Signs you have met a Potential, Uncharted, or Growing State True Emotion Mirror

These signs are less certain than the Mature State True Emotion Mirrors that I describe below, but DON’T SKIP. Growing State TrEmoRs haven’t yet reached a full completion of a union in a previous life or in spirit, and until that happens, it’s not entirely sure where things will be going in the future. These are good signs, but perhaps nothing to put a life on hold over if you are not currently growing in the relationship. If you have no viable options for partners, keep this close to heart, but these signs are “a looks good, but we’ll have to wait and see” -category.

1. You may or may not experience supernatural experiences, but they are most likely limited to “eerie coincidences.”
2. You are instantly attracted to them. You feel a certain “crush” toward them but know you are thinking about them in a permanent, lifelong relationship -terms.
3. You feel curiosity toward them: where did you come from, who are you, what are you, and what took you so long?
4. You can’t readily see anything that you don’t like about them or anything that seems like a “deal breaker.”
5. You may feel a certain need to save them from wherever they are now, which can also signify a certain “cousin” connection, as in a Precious Soulmate connection. This means “they are, at the minimum, a Precious Soulmate,” and as such, worth pursuing if you feel the need to rescue them…
6. There is a strong sexual attraction between you two, even though it may feel a little “I don’t know what I’m supposed to do with them,” but you know you want to. This sign, if the only thing you had to take away from the Mature list is that you don’t KNOW how they operate sexually, they’re not really a Mature State TrEmoR yet. One of these days, you’ll trust your love enough to be perfectly honest with each other about that, too. Many people fear this will be the deal breaker and are terrified about revealing their sexual side to each other. (This is why former-life prostitutes have better love lives to come and why everyone should start looking for partners through their perversions, not from their virtues.)
7. You may notice there is a HUGE age gap between you two, but that seems NOT TO do a thing to stop this connection from BEING. (Still, wait until 18!! 😉 )

Reading on makes sense only if all of these following conditions apply to you:

From here on in, I don’t recommend reading if the following conditions do not apply to you. The reason is that knowing too much before you meet a mature state TrEmoR may make you look for signs from where there aren’t any, and you can brainwash yourself into seeing things that are not there if you just WANT TO believe that you’ve finally “getting there.” Only read if:

1. You have had a very strong loving reaction to a particular person, and you feel strongly your relationship is beyond what is considered “normal.” You truthfully believe this is “the one” and have said that to yourself or to a friend before.
2. You are NOT in a relationship with this person (and possibly never have been).
3. This relationship seems to have paranormal aspects to it.
4. You feel you never need to fight for each other’s attention, but there are other things that don’t make sense to you, or you’re simply curious to see what this is.
5. You fear you’re losing your mind thinking this person “loves you,” as strictly speaking, you have little reason to believe that to be true.
6. You feel committed to this person, but it defies logic that you feel loyalty or unity to a practical stranger.
7. You are open to the POSSIBILITY that you might be hanging onto false hope, and you want me to help you clear your mind as a completely neutral party and move on as an alternative to hanging on.
8. You don’t want to TRAP this person, and you fear if your advances are even welcome, and you want to make sure you’re not offending them or causing trouble to them by pursuing them. (This applies to women as well.)
9. I’m almost 100% sure you have started at least one draft of a book about this person to restore people’s faith in true love… 😉 (Or at least thought about it by now.) Or you’ve created a whole new philosophy around it… ;p (*coughs*)
10. You are NOT worried about someone else stealing them away from you; you’re just worried about losing time you could spend together and want to make it together as fast as possible.

Absolutely do not read if

1. You want to experience true love but haven’t found the one yet. This will not make your search easier but will potentially make it a lot harder and more contrived. It will simply confuse you, no matter how old and experienced you are. You DO NOT NEED to know this to fall in love or to find “the one.” In fact, this list might make it much harder to. This is for issues AFTER THE FACT.
2. You thought the above list was a joke. It’s funny because it’s true, but not a joke.

Signs you have met a Mature State True Emotion Mirror

These signs are somewhat certain and refer to a MATURE state True Emotion Mirror, meaning you’ve reached a very profound “husband and wife” state in a previous lifetime or a few (or in some rare cases in spirit).

1. While you know what it feels like to be attracted to people at first sight, you know, “hot” people and all that, this time, you fell in love at first sight. The moment your eyes met, you knew you were looking at him or her, The One, not just someone “super hot.” (You might have even thought that they’re a bit ridiculous/unpleasant/somehow negative a moment before, or before you met them in person and looked them in the eye for the first time, in some cases. So this is not about them being “hot” even if they are.) They went from “a random (possibly good-looking) person” to “The One” the moment your eyes met.
2. Once they saw you, they haven’t really taken their eyes off you, or you have taken your eyes off them. You feel you never need to fight for each other’s attention.
3. You felt an instant and unexplainable feeling of love, connection, and belonging with them before even speaking to this person.
4. You can easily tell what your life together would be like and that it’ll be for life.
5. You experienced a sensation of telepathy, reading or knowing their mind.
6. You might have experienced other “funny” or unusual sensations that you might have put down to drunkenness if applicable, but ones you’ve never felt without the presence of this person (or another possible True Emotion Mirror). Such as the sensation of time stopping, suddenly knowing or sensing past lives, suddenly knowing the future or where it’s going with this person, feeling your soul move out of your body, or feeling your heart leave your body to join theirs.
7. The sexual attraction between you two is at the level that you feel they could *ehrm* make you cum with their eyes alone if they tried. You know exactly how this person functions sexually; you know their darkest sexual kinks without having to speak to them about any of it.
8. You may have had vivid dreams about this person before you met them. (Also, you might not have, you don’t ALWAYS get a premonition, but sometimes you do.)
9. You have vivid dreams about them now.
10. You might have become psychic after meeting this person. (It doesn’t always happen, but it happens very often as a direct result of meeting your True Emotion Mirror.)
11. If you have spent time around other people near each other, someone has made a comment assuming you’re a couple or a remark that is unusual or “out of place,” as if they also sensed your connection.
12. You may know, rather calmly, that “now is not the time” but in the future, it will be. (If it is not the time yet, that is. If you feel this way, it’s a calm, non-panicked feeling.)
13. You are not feeling possessive of them, and you accept their potential wife or husband as a “temporary caretaker” -sort of way.
14. It is very likely you are “age appropriate” to each other, within, say, 15 years in age, if an age cap is a turn-on for you, within a year or two if it isn’t much of a factor.
15. No matter how promiscuous you are or were, you seem to have lost your interest in other men/women.

Signs you have a Mature State True Emotion Mirror that you haven’t met yet.

These situations may change quite a lot depending on the situation… Not all of these signs need to be there.

1. Some (or even all) of the above signs make complete sense to you even though you haven’t met them, don’t know their name, and don’t know if such a person truly exists.
2. You have had vivid dreams about a “mystery woman” or a “mystery man” to whom you feel a deep loving connection. You can FEEL this person’s touches, and the dreams feel very real.
3. You have somehow formed a type of telepathic connection with someone who you don’t know. This person might be a celebrity or someone who saw you on television or YouTube, and the connection was made; they “found” you. You didn’t TRY to open this connection; it simply did. You don’t need to know how it happened. If you have a telepathic connection to them, you may know all of the above signs, but “in spirit” only.
4. Even though you’re not a psychic, a TV character (or such) started telepathically talking to you when you watched a TV show (or movie or similar) – they’re still there.
5. You feel married to them.
6. You could (and perhaps do) paint their likeness out of your mind (if you had the talent to begin with).
7. You feel irritated about perfectly eligible people trying to hit on you, even if you’re single. You feel like they should know you belong to someone else, to whom they could never measure up to.
8. You feel like you’re waiting for someone but don’t know when they’ll come… Or what’s taking them so long.
9. You want to go looking, yet you know you won’t find them or anyone else who could measure up to them.
10. Very mundane but a reliable sign: You seem to have a clear type you’re looking for, even if you move on when he or she is confirmed to not live up to what you want.
11. You KNOW you want to experience true love and that you enjoy that kind of thing.
12. You feel like you’re chasing a certain romantic feeling but can’t find it anywhere.