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Please note that these posts describe a relationship between two or more individuals. This is a soulmate typology, not a personality typology. You always need a MINIMUM of two people to decide which relationship type is in question, but you can read what would be your ideal relationship type based on your thinker type.


Healing Personality Mirror

Cousin to the Star Stud Spirit Mirror (the difference is minor and not truly important in many cases), the Healing Personality Mirror comes to your life when you are in need of, well, healing. A lot less boisterous connection, the Healing pair will nurse each other back to health, often romantically speaking. After losing their faith in humanity, getting burned in love or being sexually traumatized, the Healing Personality Mirror is the one who carefully and by instinct alone restores the balance of their counterpart.

The Healing Spirit Mirrors may allow you to explore your deepest, most shameful sexual fantasies, or may do the opposite; understand that you have no desire to “go there” and keep you safe from all darkness of sexuality and wrap you in the purest and most love and light filled sexual connection you ever imagined.

There is a downside to Healing Personality Mirror connections, namely the fact that often people get so banged and bruised in their relationship with an Inflamed True Spirit Mirror that they come and go between these two different types of soulmates endlessly; get burned with the Inflamed True Spirit Mirror, then come back to lick one’s wounds and recharge and recuperate with the Healing Personality Mirror, then go back to see if it would work out this time with the Inflamed True Mirror and… You get the idea. Once you find the True Spirit Mirror, it is impossible to walk away even if you knew that the Healing Personality Mirror was the one who always treated you well… But they always know that deep down, that impossible connection to that elusive, infuriating and even abusive True Spirit Mirror will eventually get them the kind of love that they need; complete, warts and all. Healing Personality Mirrors accept who you are with all of your dirt and grime, but they will not love your darkness, and that is why True Spirit Mirrors will always get them in the end.

The main difference between the Healing Personality Mirror and the Star Stud Spirit Mirror is that the healers can get taken advantage of a bit… or a lot. The Star Stud connection is much more mutually fun, but the Healing connection can drain one partner while the other soldiers on.

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