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Please note that these posts describe a relationship between two or more individuals. This is a soulmate typology, not a personality typology. You always need a MINIMUM of two people to decide which relationship type is in question, but you can read what would be your ideal relationship type based on your thinker type.


Undecided Spirit Mirror

The special someone who you cannot really categorize with confidence, not yet anyway.

The Undecided Personality Spirit Mirror is really a bit of a lazy, catch-all -categorizing of a soulmate who is “clearly” something more than just a Partial Spirit Mirror, but whose accurate categorizing to you is still very unclear. They could wind up being anything, really, but this is the point where things get interesting at least.

So you both (all) have some unfinished business in terms of personal development. You maybe well on your way to define who you are as people, but you simply haven’t had the time to do all the work yet. You might know a lot of things about who you are and what you want to be, but there is still some HUGE questions to answer and that is why you might want to take the cautious route and call your Most Likely More Than A Partial Spirit Mirror an Undecided Spirit Mirror. The category is a safe bet; “He’s/she’s something special to me, but I can’t say what exactly.” Stick this label on this person, and then keep looking at the other categories, keep working on yourself and your personality, figure out who they are, who you are, and you have a clean slate to move forward in your studies to each other and your relationship.

The Undecided Spirit Mirror may refer to a person who is too far to the Solid Thinker category to really categorize as a Fluid Thinker yet, which would remove them from the category of Adjusting Spirit Mirrors, but not clearly far enough that they are not that to you. They are simply an exciting person that you feel STRONG feelings for and who you KNOW IS IMPORTANT to you, but you simply cannot say for sure where they fit. This is a category that I simply put in there to give you the opportunity to not make too bold statements about anyone – I know True Spirit Mirrors often do want to do just that, because you feel like when you give a HUGE compliment to someone by calling them your True Spirit Mirror, you give yourself a bigger compliment still, and we all want to be really careful not to do it – and it is not until freaking yonks in the Mature state with a True Spirit Mirror that we become so comfortable with the feelings that we just go: “yeah that’s him/her” and we’d still feel some level of “maybe I’m hoping for too much with them” feeling. So that’s why this category is here.


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