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Please note that these posts describe a relationship between two or more individuals. This is a soulmate typology, not a personality typology. You always need a MINIMUM of two people to decide which relationship type is in question, but you can read what would be your ideal relationship type based on your thinker type.


What you need to know about the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology

First, the primary key to understanding any of my theories is to pin a label on yourself. You’ll do this by answering this one question:

Which comes first, commitment or falling in love?

  1. Full commitment comes before falling truly in love. (Fluid Thinker answer)
  2. Falling in love truly comes before full commitment. (Solid Thinker answer)

The entire Exact Spirit Mirror category is solely a Solid Thinking thing. Fluid Thinkers do not need to worry about it. Just skip over it, if you’re a Fluid Thinker, it will make no sense to you and you’ll only find yourself irritated, frustrated, and annoyed. Leave it to the Solid Thinkers, who find it to be a relief and a form of reassurance and a source of hope and support.

For Fluid Thinkers, if you want to read this typology at all, start with the Adjusting Spirit Mirror definition. That should make sense to you much more than anything else on it.

Where does this theory originate from?

The theory originates from my pen. It has one single developer, me. I am a psychic empath and have a very keen sense of emotional nuance, and I use this as a very unscientific but efficient tool to understand other people. The theory is in no way “gods word”, but I’d be willing to suggest it will open a lot of knots and twists in your relationships, whether you fully understand how I developed it or not. I always expect my readers to maintain a level of consideration, no matter how good a theory is, I am certain you’ll find some aspects that do not sit well with you – although I am equally convinced that in time, I’ll make this theory as waterproof as humanly possible… 😉

It has been developed since 2012, the work is on-going. I will adapt the theory as I find errors in it. So far, I have written 30 standard length books worth of text surrounding this topic, so I’ve been relatively thorough with it. 😀 It is quite possibly the most advanced relationship theory in existence, combined with other parts of my theories… (You should see the complexity that I’m working on now…! Phew!)

You should know that I am still uncertain about some terms I’ve chosen for the theory. I cannot make up my mind about what to call the 2nd Tier Exact Spirit Mirror, for instance, so don’t get too emotionally attached to the names, and give me suggestions if you can think of a better term for something. The Solid and Fluid Thinker  -terms are also a bit iffy, but they tend to work better than I’d like them to, the connotation to solids and fluids does make it a little hilarious – that was what you needed to know, right..?

The origin of the theory is in the Twin Flame ideas, but it has been more or less completely removed from it since. I still use the term “Twin Flame” from time to time, but there is no direct equivalent to the theoretical Twin Flame, only the actual equivalent exists, and that depends on who defines the term “Twin Flame”.

That’s about it though.

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