About Seb

Sebastyne is a jack of all trades and master of one; thinking without permission.

Over a decade ago, Sebastyne became interested in life coaching and began applying the common methods to herself… Then, she branched out to spirituality and combined it with psychology and her own thinking. Eventually, she’d created an entirely new psycho-spiritual theory, the Free Spirit Theory out of her own thinking.

It’s for fun

The Free Spirit Theory is absolutely serious, but the purpose of it is to guide people toward a fun, enjoyable life without giving up on responsibilities toward other people. Sebastyne offers guidance in balancing selfishness and self-sacrifice, finding one’s way back to one’s authentic (enjoyable) self, and recovering one’s faith in true love.

One could label her philosophy as ethical hedonism. It has a focus on authentic sexuality, analysing the sources of true romance, and figuring out actual, delicious compatibility between people.

You decide what matters to you in a relationship

Everybody is great at relationships in which they get to make all the rules. If a person like this needs to take another person’s (man’s) needs into account, they may no longer be that great at relationships.

Sebastyne encourages people to fortify their ranks against bad relationships with “relationship experts” who truly have nobody’s interest at heart but their own.

That said, we’ll play

Sebastyne wants to mix business with pleasure, education with entertainment to redesign her own life along with others’ from ground up. With a blank slate, she encourages people to look at themselves with all honesty. Who are you TRULY? How much have you told pretty or acceptable lies to yourself about yourself? How much of your life is based on a lie you told yourself? Do you really live loyal to your authentic self? Do you make choices for approval from people you don’t even like?

Join her on her sim on Second Life, read the blog, and rebuild your life… From the ashes where it may now stand…

Rules

I am a life coach on a mission to redesign my own life from ground zero and, in the wake, a few other willing victims’ lives as well. If you’re into it, do join me. (Lurking for a while is perfectly OK.)

I have a few “rules.”

  1. You have to make your own plan. It can align with mine, but it has to be yours, not just going along because you don’t really know what you want out of life, so you’ll go with my plan. Frankly, my plan is terrible! I have no intent to play by societal rules anymore, apart from actual laws. You’ll ruin your reputation with me.
  2. I am mixing business with pleasure in every way I can, and you have to be OK with it.
  3. To be my personal friend, you have to not to be sexually attracted to me, and to be a fuck buddy and upgrades, you have to be a male… And sexually attracted to me for obvious reasons.
  4. I am a life coach, a psycho-spiritual theorist, and an over-thinker. These are things that I am and will always be, and I cannot stop being analytical. However, I’m planning on playing now. If you wanna play with me, I’m good with that. You can also just decide to follow my stuff and make up your own plan and collect your own people at the rate I and we are able to inspire you to. I’ll help you find your questions and even help you set up your online stuff for your special kinda weird on Second Life, preferably as it works for the job so, so perfectly. (Check out my generic Second Life blog for technical tips and newbie guides… And for the LM for my Second Life dating joint, ZEN METAL Wanted.)
  5. My stuff is all over the place, I’m sorry. So sorry. It’s been a fucken decade in the making and half the time I didn’t have a clue what I was aiming for. And also, I swear. I love swearing. I fucken love swearing. <3
  6. My True Emotion Mirrors are either male celebrities, or men who people would 100% accept them as such, or men who are or should be famous for something insanely cool they do. I have never truly loved anybody who would look out of place on the red carpet. Just know that and don’t bug me with suggestions to the contrary. I am, personally, done with normal life and normal people with normal life goals.

Now? Cool? Follow the blog for a new life plan. I’ll give you ideas, I promise.

 

Wanna Hang?

No plan. Online chat, Second Life, or in person. I’m in if I can otherwise. We’ll do whatever we feel like it in the moment. My life rules. I mean, my life doesn’t rule; it’s a bit… But the rules I live by. No alarm clock, no agenda. I may have to run an errand maybe, I’ll take you with.

Tell me when you’ve got time.


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