Consent: Even if you’re comfortable with it doesn’t mean they have to be

This is very much a listen, you LGTBQ+ freaks -post. 😉 Your open-mindedness isn’t as much a decision as it is an inborn need to sexually connect with “innovative” partners. Heterosexuality is a thing, you know. CIS-genderism is a thing. Neither is due to close-mindedness, per se, even if there are people who are oppressing those feelings, that is not to say EVERYONE is.

This is to say that even though YOU are comfortable with whatever you are comfortable with, doesn’t mean they have to be. To think the opposite would be the same as to say a lesbian woman has to find a way to be comfortable with straight sex. To demand ANYONE to have sexual relations of any description, including viewing their sexually charged online material like OnlyFans, etc, with a person they are not sexually compatible with is TOO MUCH. Not your decision.

If they ask you to not watch, don’t watch.

If a straight man on OnlyFans asks for gay men to not watch, they must respect that. YOUR COMFORT with it doesn’t mean HE has to be comfortable with it or not do it at all. He has every right to want to show himself to consenting female audiences, without feeling the need to allow himself to be used for gay pleasure. The same goes for women. I, for one, LIKE watching gay men together, but I’m not at all sure, they’d be comfortable with a woman watching, so I don’t, and I certainly wouldn’t, if they asked women not to.

Needless to say, actual sexual relationships are much more importantly sexual orientation based, and YOU do not get to define another person’s sexuality as “close-minded” or “invalid” even if it is heterosexual. You should know better by now. Heterosexuals have the excuse that straight sex makes biological sense, you don’t have that excuse. Nor do you have the excuse of not knowing different sexual orientations exist.

So stop doing that, and let straight people have some fun, too, even if you don’t understand what’s fun about it.

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