the Savants* don’t have flings.

“A fling,” by Google’s definition, is “a short period of enjoyment or wild behavior,” typically an intentionally short sexual relationship with someone. I felt the need to define the word, even though I understand it; as a Savants*, I’ve never needed to use the word in a sentence before. We don’t do those… Or interact with people who do. If we knew someone who had had a fling with someone deliberately, we’d probably be so disgusted by that way of thinking we’d never talk to them again.

In my 12 years, nothing has gotten as much of an outrage out of my Cat Type Thinking* spirit followers as the mention of “having a fling” with someone sexy as if it was a thing to do, except the idea of marrying someone without a chance of one-sided divorce filing. The feelings that are involved in “a fling” are the very same feelings that the Savants* call “true love” and who live by the desire to find someone who will ignite those feelings for life. The idea that someone would decide to KNOWINGLY have “a fling,” knowing that it’ll be fun, romantic, and sexy, but with an intention to make it temporary, to a Savants* is an absolute outrage. It is playing with what we consider to be the most holy and sacred in life.

Ironically, we can treat a lot of Lover-thinking* sacred things with a similar frivolity as they treat our sacred things. That’s kind of always my point when discussing these two thinker types. Still, very few topics has been met with such an outcry as the idea of “we could be looking to have a fling…” “WHAT?! EXCUSE THE FUCK OUT OF ME WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY?!” It was as if someone would have seriously suggested having a baby just so we can enjoy watching it die. There are the Savants* who are less offended by the latter than the former. (Joking.)

“A fling,” to the Normal Person*, is something you have for fun, but it means nothing to them. It’s like a nice holiday or something. They let their emotions free, love, frolic, and make love, only to leave as if it was nothing. “Just a fling.”

There is nothing a Savants* finds more offensive to their sensibilities than that.

“I want to throw up. Seriously,” says one of my True Emotion Mirrors, one that is rare to see upset or angry. Now, he’s both, and this isn’t even personal to him – just the mere thought…. Sends us all to a fit of rage.

Some things you don’t mess with, and having a fling…

Nothing we’ll ever… Do.

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