How is it possible for a person to not love you after you’ve loved them SO MUCH.

Love doesn’t breed love… Not always, at least. People are very different. To some, love begins with respect. Others, love begins with DISrespect. Others begin with respect, fall in love, and celebrate it with disrespect: “You mad cunt!” Others start with “you mad cunt” and then celebrate with “you’re alright.” But there are situations when you try to love and break the ice with another person in a way that they cannot even recognize as an attempt to become closer. To some, respect is the same as “acting haughty and superior.” To some, arguing is a sign of respect, while others it’s a sign of disrespect.

If you go through a long time in a testy relationship with someone, assuming YOUR WAY is the only right way, it’s only a matter of time before your relationship falls apart. To be fair, sometimes people don’t  know their relationship is “a testy one” or that the other one describes it as “toxic.” It is entirely possible that one person thinks “we’re so close we can say and do whatever we want to each other” and the other one feels like they’re 100% abused in that relationship. Often, the other would think they are literally authentically joking or pulling a prank, if they called their jolly, friendly merriment “abuse” and meant it.

It is possible you have loved someone in all the wrong ways and not realized it. So yes. It is possible for one person to have loved a lot and have the other one be completely oblivious to it for their entire life.

It’s also the thing. If your love doesn’t get fed in a way, your love gets fed knowing logically, which is just about as useful as someone telling you that the moon is dusty. Nice to know, but what the fuck does that have to do with you, right?

Also, there’s a point of no return. It may be, that the other person (hopefully not you) has gone too far already, and even if the other person would do 180 turn, it’d be too late. When you’ve felt horrible about someone for so long, you don’t even want to feel like they love you because they made it so fucking hard to be loved by them. It’s like what, they were a cunt to you for 15 years, and you should forgive all of it because they were nice to you for 3 minutes? Yeah nah.

The point being, you don’t owe anyone love you’re not feeling, or love they have failed to inspire in you.

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