Entering the surrendered state at the same time with your True Emotion Mirror
When you accept that you have met the love of your life and that there’s nowhere else to run, nothing else and no one else you need, you enter into what is called a surrendered state. You accept your “fate”, and wait for it to come to you. Wait for it to tell you what it wants from you. Now, if your True Emotion Mirror enters this same state at the same time, you may both be completely passive when together, waiting for the other to jolt the train into motion, so to speak.
You’ve both surrendered to the will of the other, and there you are, waiting for the other to express their will.
For some reason, sometimes we stay in this mode forever, and can’t break out of it… And OFTEN we then decide that “their will is for me to vanish.”
However, it is important for you to know this; if you are sitting there silently with the love of your life, staring into each other’s eyes… The correct question is: “Are you coming home with me?” and the correct answer is: “Yes.” In fact, anything will do. “Come here.” “Let’s go.” But “What do you want?” is NOT the best thing to say, because the obvious answer is “your love” so if you phrase it that way, it becomes accusatory or sounds like ridicule. If you blurt it anyway because that’s now the only phrase you can think of, remember to stop them when they rush off and explain: “I mean: What do you want me to do so that you’d love me back?”
It is not good to dodge stuff with your True Emotion Mirror. Every time you deny feeling what you feel, you’re going to cause damage to it… So, at the risk of total embarrassment, just be honest.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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