The Difference Between A True Emotion Mirror relationship and the Savage Spirit Mirror.

Both of these relationships are “the ultimate” relationship, based on a dynamic that keeps drawing the partners together. This dynamic, particularly the True Emotion Mirror one, can be pushed off the rails by assumptions about “men” and “women.” Still, a would-be Savage Spirit Mirror can easily get tangled up with someone wrong because they get excited into an argument with someone, assuming it to mean they are “truly interested.”

Savage Spirit Mirror relationships are bonds for the Normal Person*, and the True Emotion Mirror relationship is for the Savants*.

Intensely sexual and intimate or intense like a fight club?

Both of these relationships are intense but in a different way. A True Emotion Mirror relationship is intensely sexual and intimate; they feel a romantic and sexual connection that they can feel all the way in their brain, like a drug. In contrast, a Savage Spirit Mirror feels a bond forged in a battle of either wits or physical strength, and the intensity of the battle is based on the fight. They are drawn into this battle as if addicted to it, but it will always resolve into laughter or embraces, or, perhaps sex.

A good way to understand you are NOT with another the Normal Person* in Savage Spirit Mirror relationship is that after a fight, they will rather be alone, and it takes them time to react to you in a friendly way again. The last thing they want after a fight is sex. Fights make them feel LESS bonded with their partner, not more so. They may enjoy risky humor and banter that DOES NOT result in a fight but laughter; they enjoy KNOWING where the line is and knowing how not to cross it. They “tickle” the line but won’t cross it. The Normal Person* love crossing the line boldly and pushing it further and further if they can.

Permanent, life-long

True Emotion Mirrors cannot get enough of each other. This bond is forever, and it spans lifetimes. It’s a forever -kind of thing if you can imagine that.

Savage Spirit Mirrors would get bored that way, and they’ll find a new sparring partner for every lifetime if they can. They may get obsessed by a particular the Savants* that they can’t get to surrender to them, but other than that, they’ll move on after they get what they want… The Normal Person* are rejection junkies, however, so they may leave after they get what they want unless it is a Savage Spirit Mirror who manages to keep them hooked somehow.

Impressing a Savage Spirit Mirror: “I can fight!”

If you want to impress the Normal Person* that you want a real relationship with, picking a fight and sticking to it until one of you surrenders is the way to go about it. If you want to impress a Savants*, know how to avoid picking a fight, but have well-thought-out opinions and self-control. Don’t get offended over small matters, that to the Normal Person* are excuses to pick a fight. If you want to put off the Normal Person*, don’t react to their fight-picking, and, to be fair, we rarely do. It’s just that they may interpret our disinterest as a “high-stakes game” when we only get excited about a fight when they TRULY cross the line. They see it as “finally getting interested” when a Savants* has just lost his or her respect toward the Normal Person*, and has opted to disrespect them finally.

the Savants* must learn to reject a Lover-thinking* come-on, but that’s another post.

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