the Savants* thinkers don’t want servants or weak links.
the Savants* believe in equality in relationships. This means that they want their friends to be equal in their abilities, but more importantly, equal in their willingness to take part in any activities they get themselves into. They don’t want to force anyone into doing anything with them; they want no servant vibes coming from their personal friends. At work, they’re somewhat of a dictator, when they cannot make sure there are no the Normal Person* around, they can get dictatorial, but among their friends, there will be no leaders, no followers – if they sense anything of the sort, they don’t consider you a real friend; not even if they are the leader.
It may be difficult or impossible for the Normal Person*to understand what this means even in theory. Their interpretation of equality is that everyone gets to share whatever is earned by a group equally; communistic thinking. Their idea is that since you cannot control how capable you are born, you cannot be denied the benefits of your group, and up to a point, the Savants* may agree… Out of philosophical agreement, but truthfully, they like competition, because it makes them be better and they tend to be very good at competing.
The Normal Person* are also quick to latch onto chances of entitlement. They can PRETEND to be equal with the best of them; they’ll pick the raisins out of a bun with no complaints. This annoys the Savants*.
the Savants* just want to hang out with people who can and want to pull their own weight without being told to. Who WANT TO do what they do, but who can also match their abilities with the rest of the group. The Savants* hate weak links in their group of friends, and although they frequently accept weak links among them, they do not consider them their equals or their true friends.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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