What do women want out of a relationship?

There is no such thing as a woman who can speak for all of us if she speaks for herself. “Women” is not a unified group of people.

The much better question is, what do you want your woman to be looking for in a relationship? That is a much more relevant, helpful starting point. Don’t assume that what you have to offer is what all women want, nor is it something that no woman wants. Any woman who tells you “no woman will ever” doesn’t know what they’re talking about, promise.

Short in large brush strokes:

Lover-thinking* women want security, someone to look after them, to see through their bullshit, and argue back when they try to pick a fight. Work. Drama. Commitment that lasts for as long as it’s convenient for both. Money for their troubles. Looks don’t really matter apart from impressing (what they call) narcissistic girlfriends (or frenemies).

Cat Type Thinking* women want excitement, a (clean-cut) bad boy to get them into some sexy trouble while still watching their step so they don’t go overboard. Fun without drama. Big feelings without drama. Romance that lasts a lifetime. Money plays 0 part unless it’s money that relaxes him and lets him let his hair down, too. Looks matter but are not the main thing. (Style matters more.)

Which woman do you wish to be true? (Both are, but you know…)

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