“Don’t they have a heart?!”

Umm…

They do.

If this feeling of yours is because you have begged and pleaded, you’ve cried and showed how much it hurts to be left behind…

They simply don’t want to put you in a position where you’d be hurt again. They know you’re hurting, and they know that if they’ll give in now, and then try leaving you later, it will hurt worse when they leave you the next time, than it does now. They give in, and you think the gates of heaven opened, and you’re safe. In the meanwhile, they’re planning on leaving you once you’re “stronger” again. That’s not going to be a good thing for you.

They already know they are not in love with you (or do not love you that much), and they know that even if they now yield under your pressure, they’ll just delay the inevitable. You are going to get dumped, or they are going to be unhappy in a relationship with you. (Believe it or not, some relationships make people unhappy, even if one partner gave them all the love they have to give.)

Especially if this is not the first time they’ve done this, they’ve learned that they NEED TO stay tough because trying again has never made it any better for them… And leaving again makes it worse for you. If only they knew you are playing a game, thinking that they’ll be back and them “leaving” actually means nothing serious… If they knew you think they’re playing a game, they’d care even less.

If this feeling comes when you’ve pretended you don’t care and think they’re mind-reader…

Even if they’re your True Emotion Mirror, SOME WORDS need to be exchanged. You have to make it clear you are aware of the same feelings as they are, and they are not just imagining it. (Just because you think they’re full of themselves doesn’t make it so.)

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