TLOTTW:4-year old child with a magic wand

 When you are trying to manifest something beautiful or positive in your life, such as reunion with your True Emotion Mirror, (or anything else for that matter) think of the Universe as a 4-year old child with a magic wand. You should not assume it knows anything about HOW you want things to manifest, it just knows what it is that you want deep down. For example, should you want attention, you might get that by developing a terminal cancer. Guaranteed all the attention you can soak up! If you want more free time with your family, expect to be fired from your job.

This is the first step to effective LOA; First, you need to know exactly what you want. In terms of True Emotion Mirrors, don’t just want him back, want him back in a loving and caring relationship, not one with drama and hurt. (Intense feelings can be a lot of things!) If you ‘just know’ that something is going to happen to you, like you’re going to be late for work this morning, ask yourself what it is that you really want out of being late. A few more minutes to yourself maybe or perhaps a reason to complain so you could get your reward by connecting with your work mates, in which case you should ask for connection with other people or a specific person. This needs a lot of courage on your part to be honest with yourself and ask yourself that what is the pay off in your most difficult and annoying life events. This makes you see the world in a different light, where you do get what you ask for… But you have to be very careful how you ask for it!

The trouble with the way we are thinking about ourselves and our lives lies in guilt and shame. We are so conditioned to thinking that a lot of the things we truly do want are BAD that we don’t dare to confess wanting it. Some of the most natural wants there are that are shunned from our consciousness are more love, more passion, more intensity, more wealth, more recognition, more attention, more appreciation and a feeling of accomplishment. All this means we just want to matter, but do break it down for yourself so you understand exactly what it would feel like if you had these things. Try that right now… Take a moment to just feel these things, what it would be like if you knew you were… alive and important, exactly as you were made to be.

Do make a note of this. It will possibly take you a LONG TIME to fully understand what it is that you want and what it is that you don’t have. Especially what you don’t have, because we have been trained to look for the positive, but by doing so we are ignoring the lack, the want, the MUST HAVE. If you don’t know what you don’t have, you can’t want it, that is why you must allow yourself a moment to fucking complain!! GIVE yourself a permission to be utterly disappointed with your life. Just go there. It won’t bite you. Actually it will… But just go there anyway. Just cut loose on Fuck I Hate My Fucking Life. Then ask yourself what were those dreams that you let go of and told yourself that were for other people, not you?

And trust me on one thing. Once you know what it is that you really, unrealistically want without any idea how you’re going to have it, or if you ever will… this will already feel better than just hoping for a bit of attention by developing a serious illness.

And the next item on the agenda… Now torture yourself with the exact dream life that you don’t have. Make yourself feel it, imagine it and feel how good you would be in it. Don’t even bother with your realistic life anymore. It doesn’t matter. What matters is your dream life. Live it in your mind every day, until the Universe gets your freaking message and gives you the first clue: If that’s what you want… Here would be your first step…

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