The Savants* don’t really care how much you want them (or the job they have on offer)
This is something the Normal Person* don’t necessarily understand about the Savants*; The Savants* don’t care if you’d bring them the moon of the sky by morning if they don’t GENUINELY want you. You CANNOT serve your way into the heart of a Savants*, you cannot wear down you knees to prove to them you’re willing to submit and do anything they want from you. You can bleed your blood to them when they’re dying, and even though they appreciate it and everything you do for them, they may feel they owe you big time, they won’t love you any better for it. That’s not something they control. It is not something that they can switch on or off because they feel you’ve earned it, that’s just the way it is.
Just as easily as the Normal Person* will helplessly fall for a person who will show them kindness and loyalty, without being able to control it, the Savants* cannot control who they fall in love with, and they won’t fall for servitude, self-sacrifice, or flattery. They appreciate those things, yes, but they simply will not warm up to them in the way that the Normal Person*wishes and trusts they would.
The Savants* do not fall in love over time, either. They fall in love (or like) at first sight or they don’t fall in love at all. They are looking for certain qualities in a person, just like the Normal Person* do, but unconditional loyalty, unconditional love (I don’t care what kind of a person you are I love you anyway -type), and self-sacrificing character are not something they appreciate in another person. They look for traits that they can see at first sight or possibly find a little later, but there is TRULY no point groveling for a Savants*’s love.
the Savants* can also fall in love (or like) with you but completely cut you off if you don’t behave in a manner that they approve of. Their disapproval is as strong as the Normal Person* ability to love a person who has stuck around long enough.
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*) Term changed after this post was originally written. Fractions of old terms may exist elsewhere in the post. Read about term updates.
**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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