the Savants*; learn this from the dog-type
The Normal Person* are a little bit suspicious of new people they meet… The Savants* tend not to be. The thing that the Savants* miss in their evaluation of character, is that while the Normal Person* can be nice to you as a response to your kindness toward them, they may not be very kind to OTHER PEOPLE. They even wind up trying to USE YOU for their own personal gain and assume that you are FINE BY THAT because you two are friends or lovers.
As a Savants* of a person, you still take OTHER PEOPLE into account even if you are in love or have friends, and you are not FINE with being used as a weapon or a tool against other people – sometimes even people who you love.
the Normal Person* friends of yours can be even CERTAIN that if you fall in love with someone, THEY are entitled to take advantage of the person you fell in love with, because they believe they exist solely to benefit the existing group.
This means that you will have to learn to be a little suspicious of a new person’s motivations and be on alert about how they treat you. MIND THIS: the Normal Person* tend to “interview” you when you first meet them. They are trying to decide whether you are willing to be USED by them. They think YOU are desperate if you ask them no questions or ask only a few questions. They think you WANT THEM FOR SURE if you don’t ask any questions of them.
Now, the silver lining here is this: the Savants* LOVE being asked questions MORE than they love to ask questions. The Normal Person* don’t necessarily like to ANSWER QUESTIONS as much as they like to be ASKING questions before they know what answer you’re looking for – so you need to learn to shoot first. To deceive the Normal Person* to full honesty, act interested in the most horrifying answers and keep asking questions until you’re ready to walk away.
Also notice that the Savants* like to dive deep, and fast, they like to talk about their emotions, their fetishes, their religious beliefs, but the Normal Person* will need some time to trust you first. Therefore… Skip the foreplay and go straight into the deep and meaningful to freak the Normal Person*out before you waste a moment more of your time on them than you have to.
As a Savants* of person, you have to LEARN TO INTERVIEW your new people… I was going to write some material for you, but you know what? They’ll just learn to prepare for an interview, and we don’t want that. You come up with your own questions. You’re smart enough. (Load a new post for inspiration.)
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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