Is the True Emotion Mirror connection always romantic and sexual?

Yes. ALWAYS, by the very definition of it.¹

Precious Soulmates, however, are the same thing with sex removed.

The same thing, without the sexual/romantic bond, is called a Precious Soulmate connection, which is perfect in every way, including that you both agree that you are NOT connected sexually and romantically. You feel safe in your mutual disinterest in each other in the sexual sense, even though you ENJOY each other’s sexuality – which is again a nuanced difference that some the Normal Person*people might find confusing so let me explain:

While Precious Soulmates enjoy each other’s sexuality, they are not interested in each other sexually speaking, and they do not have sexual interaction or shared sex partners – at least in a serious sense. It can happen that Precious Soulmates may TRY to be romantically involved because it MAKES SENSE, but it is not ideal and will quickly dissolve into an agreement that this is not the way we should be having a relationship – we are best friends and that’s all there is to it.

If you feel Precious Soulmates are NOT as amazing as True Emotion Mirrors and you feel that you want to ELEVATE non-sexual Precious Soulmates into the same category of True Emotion Mirrors, it’s probably because I, as an individual, don’t really care for Precious Soulmates. 😀 Therefore, you sense, in my writing, that I don’t truly connect with this term, and it is there simply as a logical, theoretical addition. However, it is there for the sake of clarity, as the Precious Soulmate -connection and True Emotion Mirror connection require slightly different approaches, considering sex changes things quite drastically.

Precious Soulmates are each other’s sexual catalysts, devil’s advocates, and delicious enablers.

The easiest way to explain it is this: when your bestie comes home from his or her new hookup’s house, they won’t hesitate to fill you in on the juicy details because your Precious Soulmate has the right reaction to everything about your life. They were also the ones who practically playfully and lovingly pushed you into making a connection with someone who you didn’t think you were good enough to approach.

Precious Soulmates are not jealous of each other’s lovers because, male or female, they are not into you sexually or romantically speaking. They respect you, your True Emotion Mirror -relationships (if you have one), and your privacy where they should, and they share the love of the same non-sexual hobbies and interests, but they DO NOT EVER step on your toes (in an unpleasant jarring or inexcusable way) when it comes to sexual matters.

Your Precious Soulmate may function as a sexual catalyst to you, which means that they may get you into delicious situations with people you find excruciatingly attractive, but you do not share a (natural) sexual relationship together.

Your ideal sexual partners are also not the same, you will never be totally into the same people in the sexual and romantic sense, because your sexual tastes are different, even if they would be different by only a small margin. Therefore, your Precious Soulmate won’t be the person your True Emotion Mirror will be cheating on you – another True Emotion Mirror might be if you are naturally polygamous (even if you didn’t realize this), but not for long before they realize it’s not that fun.

Which connection you PREFER and PRIORITIZE is a personality question.

While to me, the True Emotion Mirror connection is the most exciting, the most amazing, and the most desired of all soulmate connections, that doesn’t mean it is, objectively speaking “the one” to go for. Other people MAY PRIORITIZE Precious Soulmates, Twin Spirits, or Lovers’ Choice Soulmates* and consider them to be the more important connection. That part is individual but suffices to say if you are a romantic, you more than likely feel True Emotion Mirrors to be the ultimate soul-connection type.

1. I am the inventor of the term True Emotion Mirror, therefore you can trust my definition of the term. In my typology, a True Emotion Mirror connection is always romantic or sexual in nature. True Emotion Mirror is not directly interchangeable with similar terms like Twin Flame, I’ve gone for more precision in this. An authentic Twin Flame can also be called a Twin Spirit in my theory set, depending on which type of a twin flame connection you’ve got. ↩

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