To be attractive, to be “everybody’s type”, and to be someone’s True Emotion Mirror.

It is a bit of a cliche, but as much as it is a cliche, it’s also a truth worth repeating; Sex appeal is all in the attitude. Sexiness, however, isn’t the same thing as being a True Emotion Mirror to someone, which usually means “matching” looks. I’m saying all of this to as not to sound like I am contradicting myself. While we can agree that a sexy person is a sexy person, to make them a PERFECT person FOR YOU, it will also be a matter of matching looks. Your looks might not be a perfect match, nor perfect looks, but it does play a part, especially with people who put a high value on looks and physical fitness for instance.

I am saying this just so you don’t, again, feel guilted into agreeing that someone who you find physically very off-putting must be given a chance because “attractiveness has nothing to do with a person’s looks or intelligence”, as it does have SOMETHING to do with it. “It’s all in the attitude” is also advice for the person putting on that attitude, not for a person who gets to say “they’ve got the attitude and you must now appreciate it by sleeping with them… her.”

Being “everybody’s type” is an art form.

Being sexy, attractive, “smoking hot”, and “everyone’s type” is an art form. Still, even though Steven Tyler at the age of 75 could woo the pants off of most 25-year-olds without any trouble at all, he isn’t every woman’s True Emotion Mirror. (He is classified as a Libertine* Spirit, as an individual, not as a pair to someone else, even though Libertines* also have their True Emotion Mirror pair.) His True Emotion Mirror would be more than likely someone with equal charming power over men, someone with a mad sex appeal, and an eye for fashion, style, and “the cool factor”, along with musical talent, a way with words, and a sense of humor to kill a German laughing.

Still, you can certainly catch Steven Tyler’s eye by being charming, fun, enticing, sexy, and self-confident without being his True Emotion Mirror, even without being perfectly fit or flawlessly beautiful. There are people who will always attract people in the hundreds or, in some people’s case, in the millions, but that doesn’t make them a True Emotion Mirror to all of the people they attract.

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