How to eliminate a person you don’t like from your circle of friends with class.

1. Never be friends with someone you don’t love. Don’t be mean, just avoid talking to them about anything more meaningful than the weather.

2. Have a conversation with your real friends about any individuals you have reservations about and agree to a way to handle them appropriately.

3. If you truly have to eliminate someone from your life, prepare to cut other friendships with them.

4. Don’t prevent your friends from having relationships with people you don’t like but leave them alone into that relationship, so they can’t wrap you into that drama.

5. Be honest with your real friends always about everything, including why you want this person out and how you feel about your friends still hanging with them. Ask them to honour your wishes, don’t insist but keep away.

6. Don’t allow people sending mixed signals or set you up with them. If they invite you both to dinner, politely and quietly excuse yourself and go home. Avoid getting into a dramatic situationbut don’tsubmit to this plan.

7. Avoid drama Avoid drama Avoid drama.

8. Always tell your side of the story to people you love. In private, with no distraction and in detail.

9. Avoid public showdowns unless you genuinely feel they’d be fun and not harm your other relationships.

10. Keep drama out of your real relationships. Save drama for fake friends and fans, maybe.

11. Be mindful of who you stay in rooms alone with and what conversations others haven’t witnessed.

12. Don’t allow heart-to-hearts happen when you already know what they’ll be about and don’t want.

13. First version of a story tends to sound like the truth in our brain. Don’t let a toxic person control the first version narrative

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