Your girlfriend maybe just as uncomplicated as she seems – it’s OK to trust her view.

Women can be… dramatic in their interpersonal relationships. Then, there are women who absolutely LOATHE this side of “being a woman.” If your girlfriend or wife seems perfectly reasonable to you, simple and easy to talk to and understand, for the love of God, don’t let her mom, sister, best friend, or another woman in her life sway you to believe that SHE knows your girlfriend’s mind better as a woman, and you don’t. Say, both of you don’t want children, but her mom and other women tell you that, in fact, she does; she’s a woman after all but loves you so much she doesn’t want to pressure you, so you should pressure her. DO NOT DO THAT. More than likely, her mom would be talking about HER own desires to be a grandmother, thinking her daughter owes her grandchildren.

Also, if you’re a dad, don’t let your wife poison your mind against your daughter or vice versa – it is entirely possible you understand their interpersonal dynamic better than the drama-mongering party does and that the straightforward one is actually not even partaking in the drama while the other women are trying to tie them into it. Why, you may ask? Drama is a woman’s way of replacing the lack of real emotion. They believe that if love is missing, drama will do fine as a replacement or that it will ignite love that is missing. It works on rejection junkies. And, if they get rejected, they may take it as a play. Some women don’t know the difference between simple empty drama and love. If your girlfriend knows how to love you, they’re probably not a huge fan of drama – especially continuous drama… And definitely not as a replacement for love… You know, they confuse ” intense feelings ” for “love.”

I’ve known women who have read in a relationship theory that true love is intense, and interpreted it so that creating drama out of nowhere, even between family members or friends will make them “true lovers.” It’s scary, but you’ll do fine for yourself to NOT believe everything women tell you about other women. This may one day salvage your relationship with a woman you love.

By the way, if you’re new to the site, I am a female – the drama-loathing kind, but it certainly doesn’t stop it from following me in the form of females thinking my rejection of them is practically a  marriage proposal.

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