New rule on new friends for anyone who has a True Emotion Mirror

Making friends with people is the same as inviting them to join your family in the next incarnation. This may become a serious issue to your True Emotion Mirror relationships in the future. If you’re making friends with people who DO NOT have a True Emotion Mirror themselves, you risk being their most important friend, even when your feelings for them are lukewarm compared to your feelings for your TrEmoRs. Therefore, the only safe friends you’ll make are people who ALSO have a deep soul connection to a True Emotion Mirror of theirs, and they understand your connection as well as are protective of their own when dealing with you.

You’d do well to avoid making friends with people who don’t have True Emotion Mirrors.

While you do need Precious Soulmates for future happiness, you’d do yourself a favor by avoiding people who do not understand what you speak of when you speak of True Emotion Mirror love, so therefore, hanging out with other Twin Flames actually makes sense. At least it’s not as bad for you as I previously thought it would be, as it seemed to me that they’re all just flocking to each other and turning away from their True Emotion Mirrors (Twin Flames), but it’s actually not too bad of an idea. Much better than making friends with “normies.” Having said that, there are a LOT OF FAKE Twin Flames out there, who are most likely the Normal Person* looking to be included in yet another specialist friend group, and what’s a better point of connection as “I, too, was dumped once by someone I really loved…” Ehrm.

Having said that, I once thought Twin Flames expecting to find people who are permanently and irreversibly IN LOVE WITH someone, and I did. But in addition to them, I found a lot of women who seemed to switch focus and use their supposed Twin Flame as a ticket to bonding with other women – polygynists.

The danger

When you make friends with someone who hasn’t got an actual True Emotion Mirror and who doesn’t TRULY understand what you talk about when you talk about yours, you run the risk of inviting friends and lovers into your life who consider YOU their best chance of happiness and hold onto you to dear life rather than whomever else they were hanging onto before you (that fake Twin Flame, I presume). So they may be feeling a tremendous NEED TO BOND, and they assume that your Twin Flame connection is about the same thing, that you’re there moaning about your pain of losing that person and looking for a replacement when that’s not at all what Twin Flames (True Emotion Mirrors) are about or should be focussed on.

People with True Emotion Mirrors should be the LEAST clingy people you can find.

People who have met/found their True Emotion Mirror or are at least conscious of their existence are the most aloof and difficult to befriend and “catch” people there are. They are reserving their love for their one true love, and there’s NOBODY ELSE, other than another True Emotion Mirror, that can swoop in. (I do believe in multiple connections like this, but that’s in connection to whether you are a monogamist, polygynist, polyandrist, or polygynandrist, which is another aspect to contemplate – you should stick with your own bracket in that, too. Always like to like.)

If you run into “Twin Flames” or “True Emotion Mirrors” who seems very eager to bond with you, you’ll need to question their connection or their poly-leaning. One or the other is amiss. Even still, I am a polyandrist True Emotion Mirror, and I do love men, but I still keep most of them at arm’s length because they’re not my True Emotion Mirrors. With women, I have very little tolerance these days. Whenever I feel that “bondy” energy that I call “tentacle moment,” I do get away from them as fast as I can.

Other TrEmoRs respect each other’s connections, even when the connections reattach to another person, which is possible. They UNDERSTAND this is AN ULTIMATE love bond, and that to make it sift, what is reasonable or easily available and sensible will not suffice as a reason to sift alliances. You can separate True Emotion Mirrors from each other physically, but the bond exists, EVEN IF they’re not aware of what is missing.

“Picky and choosy” are definitely tell-tell-signs of a True Emotion Mirror, even if they don’t know who that is.

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