How to end a relationship with the Normal Person*partner or friend with a relative ease.

the Normal Person* are somewhat rejection junky. They tend to get all excited if someone is actually trying to reject them; they seem to think that person is trying to take control of them and demonstrate superiority rather than break up with them. They tend not to really “believe” in breakups unless they’re the ones initiating them. They are rather unable to see the worth of another human being, at least not the same way as the Savants* do, so they can’t, for instance, wrap their mind around the concept of “different but equal.” Their idea of equality is always “the same, therefore equal.” Therefore if you say: “We’re just too different,” they want to know which one of you is better, and then, because you’re “a team,” you help the lesser to become better. As the Savants* tend to do this “it’s not you, it’s me” routine, the Normal Person* think, “Oh, so he/she admits they’re the lesser, that’s alright, I can train them. They’re just down on themselves for no reason.”

Be it as it may, the Normal Person* are notoriously difficult to break up from. They say stuff like, “I don’t want to break up.” “No, we’re not breaking up.” “You can’t leave me.” To them, a breakup must be either THEIR decision or a mutual one. One person cannot leave the relationship. Therefore, you have to make them want to break up with you… Without ruining your reputation in the process or “forcing” the Normal Person*to ruin your reputation in order to save face, akin to Amber Heard.

Have your partner’s the Savants* friends and family members put in a bad word for you.

What you must do is to get your partner’s, or friends’ friends and family put in a bad word for you. The Normal Person* treat relationships in a type of social thing; their partners especially are very much an accessory, while their friends and family are the main things to them. Since you are a decoration, a fashion piece, you must go out of style. Your best bet is another the Savants* in the group, someone you can trust. You tell them what’s up; you want to break it off, but you know the easiest way would be if your partner initiated it. Tell this person to put in a bad word for you, and turn your partners’ friends and family against you.

The reason why this confidante must be the Savants* is that they can go against the group mentality and operate independently, unlike the Normal Person* who will have to seek permission from others. Then again, if you make a mistake and entrust a dog-type, you’ll might get your results anyway, but it can also turn badly against you. An Savant* can keep the reason for breaking up at a somewhat reasonable level, but the Normal Person* may go either way; they might start FORCING YOU back into the relationship than the other way around; they would lead with “Cat wants to leave you/us, Dog. What do you want us to do about that?” If you entrust a Savants* friend or family member of theirs to do your talking, they’ll never ALLOW the group to start forcing you back into their fold. This will AT LEAST split the group into two warring parties – Cats and Dogs, and that is not entirely a bad result.

Help the attractive friend to out-play your future ex (if applicable).

It is also ENTIRELY OK for you to approach a Savants* friend of your partner if you have a romantic interest in them, and first, ask them to put you out of favor in the group, and then you can start dating, right? Awesome. The dog will accept defeat; they were outplayed, and, ironically, this will keep your reputation clear in the Normal Person* eyes; your new partner is now dominant in their eyes, and you’re the primary trophy. (Knowing that you may now be seen as the trophy is important, so don’t get sucked in with that, it’s not true love, it’s just ego.)

A minor flaw is enough to be made into a big deal.

What you must tell your the Savants* ally to tell them is something relatively minor. It doesn’t matter what it is, as long as the Normal Person* in the group (who would be likely to want to force you to stay if your the Normal Person*friend wanted it, and they want it because you’re good for their reputation) are convinced it’s bad enough to see you as a subpar partner. Cheating can’t be the reason – the more people want you the more of a catch you are – it must be something like, “If he doesn’t cut that hair, we can’t be around him anymore.” “If he doesn’t lose that weight” – don’t use this or anything like it if you plan on losing weight, don’t do it so obviously your future ex will think you’re trying to win them back. Find anything that they might find a negative trait in you that isn’t something you can’t live with for a while. A negative label that you can pick in comparison to the rest of the group and live with. It can be very superficial, anything that makes you DIFFERENT from the Normal Person* you want to turn against you. They must see themselves as being TOO GOOD FOR YOU because of something minor while asking the Savants* to a) not defend you and b) chime in with more if they have something clever.

You might be able to approach your partner’s parents for a bad word… But careful.

You might also approach your partner’s parents, especially if they’re the Savants*. Depending on HOW MUCH IN LOVE with you your partner is, and they CAN BE very much in love in some bizarre way, you might be able to ask even the Normal Person*parent to help their child see how this relationship is bad for them and the family shouldn’t approve of it. If your partner is very much in love with you, asking their the Normal Person*parents would be like helping their favorite pet dog to escape, so you don’t really want that. However, if you believe you’re very much a take-it-or leave-it kind of accessory partner to them, you can tell your partner’s parents that you don’t want to be in a relationship with their child anymore, but you’d like to make the breakup as easy on them as possible, and if they would encourage their child to leave you it would probably be the easiest way for everyone. You can negotiate an official reason for it that works for both them and you.

An Savant* parent will ALWAYS encourage their child to let go of a partner who doesn’t want to be there. They see NO POINT trying to manipulate someone into staying, UNLESS they fully believe you, too, are in love with their child for reals, no matter how big of a trophy you were. Even if they believe you’re in love, they won’t FORCE you to stay, but they might want reassurance the reason isn’t that you don’t believe YOU are loved back.

A Normal Person*child’s parents can TELL the Normal Person*child to leave an unwanted suitor.

Your partner’s parents have the power to COMMAND their child to leave you, by the way, whether they are the Savants* or dog-type. An Savant* partner would rather break off their relationship with their parents than leave someone they truly love, but no matter how much your the Normal Person*partner loves you, their parents will can override their feelings any time. Explain this to a Savants* parent as a “this is the way your kid thinks, in case you didn’t realize; they’ll do whatever you want of them.” If you want to squeeze them a little harder (a Savants* parent would be so ashamed they’d have you free by nightfall): “I thought that your kid is a free spirit, but they’re just an out-of-control brat, and it’s your fault. I want to get rid of them, and you need to help me, and you need to reign in that mess.” (If that’s kinda true, too, you’ll do your partner a favor, too. The Normal Person* need structure, rules, and constant guidance for life, and the Savants* parents are very unlikely to give it to them starting teen-age.)

For the Normal Person*, relationships are all about security or something to impress their friends with.

You also have to understand something about the ambitious (scared) dog-type. They can smell money-maker a mile away. However, they are completely driven to gain security, and they may associate riches for security and do not care where they come from. They think they’re clever if they find a FUTURE money-maker while they’re still poor. They look for money-making potential, which means they want the same exact people as the Savants* do, for different reasons. The dog types do not have the talent and the IQ to make a difference, but they do know who they should hitch their wagon on. A Normal Person*intelligent man, however, can see women as trophies for their beauty (or how much other men want her for whatever reason) and ignore all and any signs of intelligence or talent as non-important.

Female the Normal Person* will befriend women who are seen as women who will make them money, more than likely through marriage (again, Amber Heard and her friends); if they don’t believe in their own marital prospects, they’ll befriend a woman who has more prospects than them. They also think that other women are more than willing to hand out money to them as long as they agree to protect her from her husband somehow (even if it isn’t necessary); in their mind, they see someone with status and power as both dangerous and necessary. They admire the beautiful women for having the bravery to marry a powerful man, who they AUTOMATICALLY assume to be violent if he so chooses. Therefore, their goal is to control the husband while using him for personal security. (Amber Heard.)

If you can make yourself an unappealing partner to the Normal Person*by loss of security or reputation, you’ll be free to go. However, ironically, being aggressive or violent is, to a dog-type, a form of flirtation: “Look, I’m dangerous; I can keep you safe.” the Normal Person* may also “brat” to make YOU demonstrate how you can keep them safe; to force them to play by the rules, for instance. “I won’t let you break any rules; I’ll keep you safe. I’m only hitting/yelling at you because you put yourself in danger of losing me/breaking a rule.” You must demonstrate to them how you can’t keep them out of harms way; how you’re a pussy, if you will, but not appeal to their maternal/paternal side to think they should take care of you instead.

To find the best way out, you have to figure out what it is that you are to the dog-type; something keeping them safe, secure, and comfortable, and/or something to impress their friends with. Then, take it away, or lower your partners’ satisfaction to the level that you do it with.

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