When a voice in your head promises your ultimate lover is on his or her way, should you listen?

This is more common than you think, you know. I know a lot of people who have had this experience; their ultimate soul-bond lover or lovers start talking to them telepathically even before they’ve met. There are many ways it ignites, but to summarize, we wind up having almost a 24/7 conversation with someone who isn’t physically present. This may make you feel a little crazy to think there’s any real significance to this experience, and yet, you know there is.

As of writing this I do not have a reliable example to tell you that the connection will lead to reunion in the physical realm, but it can be due to the fact many people give in before they’re ready for it. They push the connection out and opt-in to find someone in the usual way. Their soul-bond lovers, whom I call True Emotion Mirrors, and some other people call Twin Flames (there are theoretical differences, but it’s basically the same thing), give up and stop talking out of respect toward the ultimate lover and his or her decision.

The reason the connection turns telepathic is that there is some barrier in place that stops them from meeting. It can even be quite a physical barrier: they live in another country. The more likely scenario is, however, that the barrier is psychological or spiritual; you need to figure something out before you can meet. That something can be a variety of things; a promise you’ve made in a previous lifetime, a promise you’ve made in this, unfavorable friendships that you’ve made… OR simply you don’t know how to talk to each other yet. Maybe you always wind up arguing. Maybe you don’t trust each other. Basically, spirit has intervened: “Look, kids, you have to sort this out. I can’t bring you together until you figure this out. It’ll just end in tears as per usual.”

You see, you’ve spent a lot of lifetimes entwined. (One of the differences in Twin Flame beliefs, even though I’ve found a lot of Twin Flames have decided this is a repeating connection despite what the concept’s theory says.) You’ve gone through a lot, and you’ve come out scarred and beaten up. You repeated the same mistakes, and although the love was there, you never figured some things out. It could be that you’re both hiding something from each other that you fear will make the other reject you when in truth that’s the stuff that makes you right for each other. When they’re constantly in your head, you can’t really hide stuff from them anymore, can you?

Too good to be true?

The scientist in you decides that “this is all too good to be true” because that person is like an exact answer to your wildest fantasies. I am being sarcastic about the “scientist” part. That is very poor science. “It couldn’t possibly be.” “The readings indicate…” “Fuck the readings, we’ll just go with what we believe.” I am just saying “it is too good to be true” is not a scientifically or logically valid argument. It’s a negative belief. Scientists don’t do beliefs.

Now, then, what is it? The fact you cannot discount it on the basis of “it would be too good to be true” doesn’t yet give you a confirmation it is. What you can count on is that your subconsciousness, at the very least, is trying to tell you something quite important enough to render you insane. It’s trying to teach you something – at the very least show you, blatantly, what it is that you are sexually and romantically attracted to, and underline it with such bold lines that you cannot ignore it. AT THE VERY LEAST, you have to notice what it is that you want out of a relationship and stop settling for pale versions of it.

At the very least.

For as long as the voice persists, there’s probably something wrong with you. 😉

I don’t know what’s wrong with you, but it isn’t that you’re beyond help. Your voices, whether real or imagined, are trying to fix you, so you should keep listening. For as long as they persist, they are finding something worth digging into and pulling out into your everyday consciousness; if nothing else: “You’re not ready for another relationship yet.”

Whatever it is, it is worth listening to and talking back to, I promise.

What do I think it is?

I do believe 100% that it is exactly what it looks like: Your ultimate lover has come to you in spirit because he or she has realized you need help and they cannot be there, or you can’t go to them for one reason or another. What that reason or those reasons are, are very individual, but I do fully believe this is a sidedish to true love.

I also think that depending on your circumstance, you may decide you can’t be together in this lifetime, but your True Emotion Mirror(s) tell you they want to meet in this lifetime; who is to stop you? Nobody. The only person who can tell you no is them (if they don’t say it in spirit, they might say it in person, to be quite… realistic, but I wouldn’t fear that). Outsiders don’t get a say about it – but they might try. There’s no need to listen to them. (Who are outsiders? Anyone who you don’t want to be insiders.)

Note: Not all of “your voices” are True Emotion Mirrors

This is important; just because a spirit can speak to you telepathically doesn’t mean they are your True Emotion Mirror, your god, angel, or any other person of authority. They can be “your demons,” so to speak. They can be the very people whose way of thinking keeps you away from your True Emotion Mirror(s). Therefore, if you don’t LOVE the person(s) talking to you, THEN it’s worthwhile running their words through a serious fact checker.

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