Slight interpretation adjustment.

Although I do trust the random post chooser and the power of the Universe, it’s possible that some of my advice has gotten into your brain by a route not chosen by the Universe – leaving you with the excuses you wanted, not the answers you wanted. Maybe now you’ve changed your mind and actually want what is helpful rather than a pure excuse and a cop-out. So:

When I help you guess what’s going on in another person’s mind, the main purpose of it is not to be mean but to help you understand a loved one or someone attacking/causing problems for you and your loved ones for whatever reason. You don’t want to get this wrong by looking for excuses or nice-sounding face-saving lies to tell yourself. You want to be as fair and open-eyed as possible because if you simply pick a “reason” that sounds the meanest and most hateful, you’re going to make your situation worse, not better, won’t you? Then again, if you’re overly kind to whomever you attempt to understand, you run the risk of it costing you dearly, or cost you your True Emotion Mirror, at a cost to them – or any combination of that, as what hurts you will also hurt your True Emotion Mirrors.

Don’t use this stuff for your personal false ego-building purposes, nor as excuses and cop-outs, if you’re actually looking to benefit from them rather than digging your own hole bigger. You want to look at yourself with a critical eye but not forget to do the same thing to others involved in the situation. Always ask yourself if you are being objective or (partially) blinded by your own fears and wishes… Or are they?

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