When you realize your compassion has FUCKED YOU OVER and now you don’t want anyone near you.

Don’t worry, you’ll get over it, is my first message – and you’ll get over it, WISER.

You know you’re hurting because you’re putting barriers around yourself to protect yourself from the next manipulator. You fear your compassion and pity for others will make you let the wrong ones in again at the expense of the right ones. You fear you’ll trust the wrong people again. You throw your compassion out completely, as it’s a sucker for the wrong people, right?

Don’t rush to invite it back in, yes? There’s a process, but keep your compassion handy. Invite it nearby, but don’t let it get the better of you. Learn to handle it. Compassion is a great servant but a horrible master. Luckily, it’s good friends with humility.

You’ll need your compassion around for yourself, too. You need to realize that your mistakes are human – predictable and, as such, manipulatable by those who want to use them to their own advantage or amusement, and you’re definitely not the first or the last to fall for them. Still, you can make this the last time you were taken for a ride.

You don’t need to turn callous; if you are now, trust that’ll be temporary. Callousness also takes you out of the game of love. People who want to screw with you will be pleased to know you’ve lost your compassion, love of others, and ability to trust yourself and others and make you unwilling to participate in the game of love. Don’t let THAT be their victory. These malicious individuals WANT YOU guarded, scared, and withdrawn from the game.

Keep your head cool, go through your process, and pace yourself. Be kind to yourself, open your eyes wide, strategize a bit, and get back into the game.

My website is written as I go through this myself to make myself ready to face both my Antagonists and my True Emotion Mirrors again. There’s a LOT of stuff here for you.

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