No label – no sex!

Here’s an idea: if a grown person cannot put a sexual preference label on themselves, assume, rather that they don’t have preferences, that they don’t have desires AT ALL. If they don’t know what they want, they don’t know what they don’t want, either, and that makes them TOO IMMATURE for sex. Simple as that.

What labels am I speaking of? Minimum: Clearly stated: Is she a heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, or asexual. Trust me, I know people who would feel baffled because they would be thinking: “Which one do you want me to be?”, not what they actually are. They don’t want an opportunity to make a new friend run past their fingers, so they’ll try to guess which answer you’re looking for and go with that. THIS is not a genuine answer. It is A GUESS.

Too often, when the same person is asked the same question, they’d give you a different answer. One day Amber Heard is a lesbian, the next day she’s bisexual, because well, expectations. The following day she’s an abuse victim – all because she doesn’t know her own mind, regardless of her physical age. She may be manipulative, but she also may be going along with things without a true will of her own, then throwing tantrums at men who she regards trustworthy, like Johnny Depp.

Early critique toward feminism included that women are like children and, therefore, cannot handle themselves in the man’s world. This is turning out to be true at an alarming accuracy rate, albeit, obviously not true across the board.

Therefore, here’s an idea, before you unzip it, make her talk about it. If she can’t, move on. For your own good and hers.

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