True Emotion Mirrors and the suspicion they feel of each other.
True Emotion Mirrors seem far, far too good to be true to each other. They may also sound too good to be true when someone else figures, “You know, I know this guy/girl who would be just PERFECT for you…” And your every instinct goes: “Oh hell no, here we go right down toward hell on that road paved with good intentions… Yeah, what’s he/she like?” There are also aspects about your True Emotion Mirror that just sound BAD. Like really, really bad and sus and those things are JUST THE THINGS you’ve been fighting against, the thing you know you can get sucked into, stuff you try to overcome – and here is this person, luring you back where you just got out of or seems to be, at least.
True Emotion Mirrors are terrifying because they seem to give you everything you greed after, wrapped up with a bow on top, and you just know that’s a bad idea. You don’t know; you think you know. You’ve been down a road very similar to this before, and it all ended very badly. Still… You gotta know… Opening your eyes is better than closing them when you’re looking at something scary and potentially dangerous. See it for what it is – and know that it can be scarier to not see a flaw or danger than it is to see it plain and clear; it’s much easier to avoid a danger you can see than a danger you can’t even predict. But… True Emotion Mirrors are perfectly perfect.
We have a tendency to blind ourselves from the flaws of people we don’t love and the virtues of the people we love to achieve some kind of a fake balance. It seems to be the done thing, generally speaking. True Emotion Mirrors are best observed with wide-open eyes – everybody and everything is, really. The more you see about your True Emotion Mirror, the more you understand why, and the more you see about the non-TrEmoRs, the easier you understand why not. Blinding yourself is the same as trying to convince yourself of the opposite of what is the truth. Blinding yourself is the same as lying to yourself…
Just look.
If they are suspicious of you, however…
People tend to lie to everybody, hoping to get a little more positive reaction out of them through a nice-sounding lie. This works for EVERYBODY else except your Destination Soulmates. It’s not that they don’t believe you – they will; every lie you resort to will make you LESS PERFECT, and that chimes into their suspicion that you weren’t that awesome after all. This is why having someone put a good word in for you is horribly bad, too, because if they lie on your behalf even the slightest, to your True Emotion Mirror, you will sound LESS attractive than the real you would be, not more.
What I mean is this. Let’s suppose you’re a fashion model and LOVE being one. Still, your last boyfriend, who was the philosophical type, thought it was a bit shallow and meaningless to be a fashion model. So you meet this guy, who is gorgeous, who is absolute perfection… And you decide to lie that you’re eh… Not a fashion model but, well, maybe a librarian to impress him. If this is your True Emotion Mirror, though, his lifelong dream has been to date a fashion model. With True Emotion Mirrors, you live by the truth, and you die by a lie.
Now, after you lied, you feel a bit guilty, and even though they still think you’re hot as – and could be a fashion model if they convinced you – they sense that you’re lying about something…
The same rule applies to demons and True Emotion Mirrors: Don’t lie to them. It’ll backfire.
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