There is NO age where female heterosexuality is accepted by society.

I remember having this frustrated thought at the age of 17 or so, “I wonder how old I have to get before people trust I know my own mind and my own sexuality?” At the age of 47, after watching a YouTube video about a 67-year-old OnlyFans model, the answer is there is no such age. Heterosexuality in women is still linked directly to conceiving children, NOT with pleasuring men – unless you ask a closet lesbian who thinks that’s all it’s about… As they SEE NO WAY a woman could enjoy and love sex with men for any other purpose than conceiving a child or forcing a man to pleasure them only. Like women seem to freak out if a man enjoys the sex they’re having with them, as if male enjoyment made them feel dirty. (I would feel dirty if they didn’t enjoy it. That would make ME the creep. It should be a mutual enjoyment, right?)

So, here’s the thing: Forget what people say about it. Just do it. Whatever it is that you wish you were “permitted” to do, no matter what your mom and dad, grandparents, your nieces, and nephews – just do what you feel is right for you.

Also, know that women who don’t know men too well get shocked about the smallest of things; that men would use the word “fuck” to describe the act of well… Fucking you, or that they want to think of you in some other context than rose petals on the wedding bed… Like… Yeah. They can be incredibly naive, assuming men will pay them just to be able to compliment their beauty online and that male sexuality is PURELY visual. It isn’t. There’s a touch and fuck -component to it, surprise, surprise.

Your children are a bit of a question; they will always defend what you do, and if you know you have controversial appetites, the question is, do you want to make your children your personal justice warriors or wait until attitudes mature up a little, too? Parenting is a series of personal sacrifices, and one of them might be to never have any, but you go and think it through. I, personally, believe your only responsibility in matters like this is to your own children, and that’s where it stays.

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