Why the Savants* don’t like the Normal Person* willingness to adapt to anything.

the Normal Person* will adapt to almost anyone and their wishes if that’ll get them a new friend. The Savants* are flexible and open-minded up to a point, but their personality and personal values remain unchanged in new relationships. The Normal Person*, when not fully accepted into any group yet, will remain in a very flexible state, to the point they have no personality at all, and then, they may fix it to whatever they get indoctrinated by and stick with it to hell and high water.

By the Normal Person* logic, there is no reason to have a fixed personality or value system, if it gets it the way of forming a new alliance. The Normal Person* feel that if they are willing to be anything, adapt into anything, and change their value systems to match the current company, what could be easier than that?

There are a few reasons why the Savants* don’t like this way of thinking at all. Let me explain it this way:

You are the Normal Person* Person, and you’ve found yourself an amazing friend or group of friends, and you’ve fully adapted yourself to their way of thinking. Due to unforeseen circumstances, you’re introduced to a new group of people, perhaps a group of school friends, work buddies, neighbors, maybe your new spouses family, we don’t know, and you love and adore them, too. Now you have two equal groups of people, but oddly enough, they are nothing alike. Who are you now? Which group can rely on your loyalty and your value system?

From the Savants*’s perspective, the Normal Person* are very unreliable. As they are willing to adapt to any new group, they are also highly likely to sell out any secrets to the new group under even the slightest pressure, just to get onto their good side and to be liked by them.

Who are you when you’re between two people or two groups… or alone?

Let’s forget about our secrets for a while and just think of this scenario:

You’re at a garden party, which both of your groups are invited to. Maybe it’s a huge wedding. Now, you’re standing between two friends from different groups – which one to you adapt to now? Who are you now; when you cannot simply adapt to a commonality between all of the people in your company?

What about when you’re alone and you’ve got nobody to please? Who are you then? How do you cope with your sadness of being alone, who will you stab in the back when you are feeling isolated from all of your friends, even if it’s only for a week when they’re on holiday?

Lastly; fake.

The most pfft “just don’t like it” reason for a Savants*ality to not like the Normal Person*’s eagerness to conform to anything is that they consider it to be “fake.” What they consider to be real is a previous, self-motivated interest toward certain things and an independently withheld value system that is reliable. A person who hasn’t got an independent way of thinking they are a loose cannon, as mentioned, and a person whose interests sift as per their company also doesn’t seem to learn that much about anything; when the group of friends change, there is no need to remember things or to deepen one’s knowledge or understanding of the topic. Your conversation remains shallow and repetitive. You offer nothing new. It’s like speaking to a parrot with a delay; you said something last week, and this week, your “friend” repeats it back to you. It’s boring.

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