When you meet your True Emotion Mirror, flaunt your negatives.

(Perceived) perfect people often find themselves single or in unsatisfying relationships for a lifetime. Perfectionists tend to try and reach perfection to feel worthy of the love of the kind of people they love: perfectionists. Perfectionists love perfectionists, there’s no question about it. However, there’s a problem with it. True love is often about the flaw. The delicious, perfect flaw.

When two perfectionists fall in love, they can feel like such an underdog in comparison to the other that they redouble their efforts to not show any signs of flaws. This then forces the other half to do the same, and you’re both pretending to be unaffected, cool, collected… And that’s where you’ll stay.

But then, when you think of situations where someone who is not to your liking, inferior to you, you’re doing the same thing. You’re still covering up flaws so that they won’t get it into their head that they’re worthy of your love. Then, when you finally get tired of their chasing, you say “you know what, you wouldn’t like me anyway because of XXX” expecting them to go away but that works like a red carpet rolled out. This works the opposite to the people who you normally hate; grovelers, sub-slaves, who want to worship your perfect ass and be imperfect and flawed in comparison to you. Then, you wind up with simps and that folk… Flawed submissives, and you don’t like them. So… How about you flip your script?

Achieve your near perfection, then complain about your flaws to everyone. Imagine someone hot doing it. Sexy, right? To have someone damned near god-like honestly be down on themselves. Hawt. :p

Stop saying “Look, I am XXX, live with it.” Say it like it’s a flaw. “I’m not worthy of a relationship because I am XXX” -air. You know. 99% of people wouldn’t click this link… *bawl* However, don’t fake it, like those “people say I’m ugly, is that true?” if you look like a cover model. It’s just fishing for compliments and off-putting. Point out your real flaws, or flaws that are not flaws in e everyone’s books.

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