Dangerous interpretations: “True Emotion Mirror Promises through gestures” and “on behalf of”

The following is why my writing has turned into a collection of warnings rather than a collection of promises made on behalf of somebody else to people I’ve never heard of.

I have become aware of multiple ways people interpret situations to mean something other than what they mean. This can happen both ways; a True Emotion Mirror can just as easily interpret something carelessly phrased as “I don’t love you,” as a hopeful non-TrEmoR can interpret nearly anything as “I’ll love you forever.” I’m going to be talking about the latter: often, people think a non-TrEmoR has made “a promise” through “a gesture,” while the other party might be completely unaware of having made promises at all.

Another situation may be that a third party, such as a psychic, a Twin Flame teacher, or a friend, has reassured a fretting person in love, “I am sure that meant that he/she loves you.”

You wouldn’t believe how little it takes.

Tons of situations mean SO MUCH MORE to one person than another that we cannot even predict conditions where a gesture means “a promise” of some kind. Gifts, expressions of kindness, defending someone, a fist pump, or a high five, maybe, the only man/woman who signed the birthday card at work, can mean EVERYTHING to a person who has difficulty making friends. A celebrity being nice to someone who has always been cast aside may mean, to a fan, that the others were jealous because her True Emotion Mirror is a celebrity (and the others knew).

An overly optimistic person may think, “He always avoids me at the office. It’s because he’s married, and I’m so sexy I will easily ruin his marriage.” In contrast, he, in truth, avoids her because he seriously dislikes her. Then again, in the case of the True Emotion Mirror, she may think he dislikes her, and he avoids her to protect his marriage from his desire for a co-worker.

Let me give you an example from real life.

The woman was a 49-years-old virgin, and he was about her age. She kept referring to her boyfriend in conversations with her new friend until something started sounding off to her, so she asked her for a photo. She showed a picture of a very handsome man, intelligent, charming… An unlikely match to the somewhat… A lot less attractive woman. So her new friend started probing what made her think he was her boyfriend.

They worked together at a government building. “The Boyfriend” sometimes had his lunch at her table at work, and once, he came to work during his off day to show her his dog. And once, in an elevator, she had hugged him, but he’d pushed her away – this didn’t make her think he’d rejected her, but she was confused as to what it meant.

Romantics can be impatient.

You might also want to be aware of the fact that when people are looking for true love, they get impatient. People have a tendency of role-playing love relationships without actually having the feelings in play that one should have. It can also be an ego-thing, if you believe yourself to be “born for romance” and you struggle to find yourself a romantic partner, you may be inclined to pretend a little.

It is not at all uncommon that people get married in their need to role play relationships that are not exactly real. It is not uncommon at all.

It’s not nice, but it is human, and you need to take that into account when you are being given romantic gestures to.

With the idea of a True Emotion Mirror, things will get muddier still.

When the concept of a True Emotion Mirror relies quite heavily on instinct, it leaves a TON OF ROOM for people to believe an accidental eye contact or a strong rejection means that this person is “the True Emotion Mirror.” In truth, True Emotion Mirrors are an entirely different thing, but how can one be sure when there is clear evidence of people who put a crazy interpretation to the smallest of gestures.

While the less socially inept a person is, the more significant the gestures must be for them to mean something, still, in truth, we cannot even trust a wedding to mean “love forever.” In short, gestures mean nothing without other signs present.

And even when people mean a love confession from their heart, it doesn’t mean they will STAY IN LOVE with that person, NO MATTER WHAT.

Beyond True Emotion Mirrors, there is no certainty in love, but have you found the right person, or are you simply making believe this person is a True Emotion Mirror? THAT is what this website is trying to uncover. HOW DO YOU KNOW?

There are tons of warning signs that I’ve laid out A LOT. And making promises to yourself on someone else’s behalf is about as rookie a mistake you can make in love.

I promise myself not to throw in the towel before I know what I’m dealing with.

I truly advise people NOT to count their blessings before a blessing is confirmed a blessing. And I know some True Emotion Mirrors are insulted that you don’t trust them without words, without any gestures, without love confessions; they want you to know and trust them, but how CAN YOU when there are such, frankly, romantic idiots running around? How can you be certain you’re not one of them?

The last thing many of us want to be is that person. The person who FULLY BELIEVES has a “boyfriend” or a True Emotion Mirror who would shudder to think that we think that way about them. Oozing self-confidence, they insist a person any sensible person knows wouldn’t look twice their way is their True Emotion Mirror! How do they know? “Sometimes at work, we have lunch together.”

And if you know how small the difference between “you’re my True Emotion Mirror” and “you’re good, but not quite perfect” is, you don’t want to count your chickens before the eggs hatch.

But when you think of things realistically, even with every romantic fiber in your body buzzing, you can promise to yourself someone you hope is your True Emotion Mirror is worth the risk of squandering your life away in the hopes that one day, they’ll come to you. Your risk. Your call.

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