You don’t BECOME a generalized True Emotion Mirror. You FIND yours and then, you are theirs.

You’re doing it wrong if you are trying to find out how to become a generic True Emotion Mirror. NOBODY is a generic True Emotion Mirror, but you can BECOME an Enigma Soulmate. An Enigma Soulmate has generic traits that people in general find attractive. Superstar traits. Enigma’s True Emotion Mirror is another Enigma, but they are also attractive to other people. An Enigma Soulmate is like one of those blocks in a match game that matches with every other color tile on the game board. They are not fake; however, they have a lot of genuine traits that a lot of people connect with through more limited amount of traits, like one-color game tiles.

Now, if you want to become an Enigma Soulmate, there are some clear rules: You need to look attractive both physically and style-wise, unless you have master charm capacities, that means you have to be lean in body fat. You need to know your manners so you know how and when to break manners and follow manners depending on the situation. You need to know how to show respect and how to show disrespect. You’ll need to be funny, charming, and kind to those who haven’t hurt you and know how to reject people with poise and charm. You need to know how to flirt and flatter, and damned, you need to know when to shut the fuck up. (Your #1 skill is to know when not to speak.) Being an Enigma Soulmate does take quite a high IQ. It is not easy, and you must want to do a lot to please people WITHOUT being a floor mat or a people pleaser. You must be a positive experience to them.

To find your True Emotion Mirror you don’t have to be an Enigma Soulmate, however. That’s why these have different terms. You need to be your authentic self in both cases. Whether you are an Enigma Soulmate or not, you still have to be your authentic self to match your True Emotion Mirror, who must also be themselves. For an Enigma Soulmate to FEEL matched, they need another Enigma Soulmate as their True Emotion Mirror.

You ALWAYS find your True Emotion Mirror through finding yourself. However, it may well be that a lot of you are not actually interested in finding your True Emotion Mirror as much as you want to figure out how to become an Enigma Soulmate, which is not a bad goal; it just may be an impossible one to achieve for a lot of people… And I don’t think I have the energy to even try to teach you that. Most people who are NOT Enigma Soulmates lack the energy to be that because it is DIFFICULT. Enigma Soulmates make it look easy, but it is far from it. The training you’d need to go through, especially after losing your youthful good looks, is simply far beyond the effort required for most people. You think you get to be selfish when you’re an Enigma Soulmate, but the opposite is true. MOST OF Enigma Soulmates are that BECAUSE they are NOTHING but selfless and willing to go the extra mile for another person. To help them, to amuse them, to make them feel good about themselves and their lives, to entertain, to dazzle… It’s all hard work, and it’s not paid. You have to want to do it simply because you love people in general, not because you just want to “be selfish”. No Enigma Soulmate is selfish. They can’t afford to be.

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